I am i love with this guy only he doesnt want to date me. But the problems is he had asked me out 2 months ago but stupid me i liked another guy (who liked my best friend) what should to prove to him that im still the girl he used to like???
2007-02-05 00:55:17 · 13 answers · asked by Leah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't have to prove any thing to a guy, ever. Either he likes you or he doesn't. Never say that you are stupid because you are human, we as humans some time make bad or wrong choices. Again, You DO NOT need to prove any thing to a guy ever, if any thing he should have to prove to you that he is worth you time. Keep your self esteem, never lower your standards and treat your badly. No guy is more important than your own self esteem and self worth.
2007-02-05 01:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by Cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you're not "in love" with this guy. You like him, you're attracted to him, but love takes two and if he is not interested at the moment, the two of you are not in love, therefore you are not in love.
But more to the point; you should do nothing to prove anything to him. Just think how much changed in two months! In another month whether or not you've dated this guy, chances are you'll be on to some new person you like even more. Don't sweat it is my advice to you. Play it cool and don't work too hard on getting the guy you didn't want two months ago. It might even turn out that he becomes "re-attracted" to you if you seem a bit uninterested rather than a bit desperate. That's not to say you should be mean, or start intentionally ignoring him (although that might have some affect also), just act normal around him, not like your life depends on his affection.
2007-02-05 09:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by fluffyhead42 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt with him and hang out, maybe he liked you and since you turned him down he feels like what would be the point to try an pursue you again. Call him and tell him how you feel or even see if he wants to go out but a bunch of people go out with you so that way it wouldn't be as much of a date and then he can see the real you.
2007-02-05 09:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously doubt your actually in love with this guy, you haven't even dated him yet. If your interested in dating him, however, ask him out first. If he's "busy", than just be yourself and perhaps the interest will respark. Everything takes time. It sounds like you have plenty of it. Be yourself, be positive, do not be silly, don't show off trying to get his attention. If your just having fun, he'll see it and want to be part of that fun. Good luck.
2007-02-05 09:01:04 · answer #4 · answered by Copper Jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is not difficult. It comes easy in the beginning, if you have to work to prove yourself, then it is not worth it. The work isn't supposed to come until you are in the bonding time, getting used to one another. Move on, sweetie and your Prince will come!!
2007-02-05 09:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by CeeCee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with him...don't try anything just be friends at first. Go snowboarding...or bowling...show him your fun side...maybe his feelings for you will come out if you guys are out having fun. Don't go somewhere where your going to sit at dinner...that might be a little to much!
2007-02-05 09:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by ~J*me~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His pride is hurt, because you turned him down once. Try to befriend him, so that he can see what a great girl you are. If all else fails, find someone else to like.
2007-02-05 08:58:49 · answer #7 · answered by Queen Bee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How in the hell can you be in love with someone, but doesnt even want to date you???? Are you insane????
2007-02-05 08:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing you can do. If he's lost interest, then he's lost interest. Hang out with him, be a good person, maybe he will come around...if you're lucky. Sorry.
2007-02-05 08:59:33 · answer #9 · answered by Groovy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't want to date you now you've missed the boat.
you cant force or convince him if he feels this way.
move on.
2007-02-05 09:02:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋