A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He told me I was too werd.
2007-02-04 23:54:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you were right the first time: he's a dog. He told you he wanted you to sleep with him, then let you embarrass yourself, then turned you away.
Tell him to have a nice life, and move on!
2007-02-05 00:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by oaxaca_so_long 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. This guy just thinks you're super hot and wants to sleep with you. Because he has a girlfriend, he is trying to make you feel bad just so you can sleep with him. Don't feel bad. He's being a jerk. We both know sleeping with him would of been much worse cuz women don't separate feelings from sex. Keep your head up and walk into your job proud. Don't be embarrassed. You're not weird. He's trying to hurt your feelings since he knows that he can't get you now.
2007-02-05 08:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us girls are weird. We tend to over analyze every situation and guys hate that. I would go on with life and pretend it never happened. Just smile and be civil to him but don't give him any 'secret glances'. If he wants you he'll come to you. Keep your dignity and don't chase him.
2007-02-05 08:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha! This guy thinks ur weird? Honey, ur just fine. HE'S the weird one! Forget him, he's not worth your time.
2007-02-05 08:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by wolfgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say stay away. He seems to be manipulating you......take that as a sign of his true being.
2007-02-05 08:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tammy G 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's right.
2007-02-05 07:59:06 · answer #6 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋