hey my gf finished with me nearly 4 weeks ago cos of an argument at work. she was with me for 7 weeks and got with me after spliiting with her ex who she was with 4 years. Whenever i ask my gf would she take me back she says she doesnt know but she likes me, fancies, and has goot feelings for me but can only give friendship. i dont know what to do help ? can i get her back ?? i gave my gf alot of attention buying her expensive gifts, flowers, perfumes, going to pictures and txting and rinigng her quite a bit. Ive decided not to txt her for while and give her some space, do you think she would miss me or think about me ? n is der ne chance of me getting her back ?? Plus i havent txt her today so when should i next txt her if she doesnt txt me ? i treated her like a princess do you think she would miss me ??? do you think she needs a bit more space and time to get over her ex, and maybe i was too full on ? she says she can only give me friendship for now, do u fink she wud miss me
2007-02-04 23:53:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seriously I reall think u need to move on, its doing u no good at all.
I really dont think shes interested from what u say about her. Even if she did take u back it could only be because she feels sorry for u..?
Would u honestly have her back with that in the back of ur mind...u would be wasting ur time.
Sorry but please move on.
2007-02-05 00:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've made a good start so far. Give her some space. You're also getting some space for yourself. Go out and have fun. Don't dwell too much. More than likely, you'll bump into her sometime and start chatting and be able to work out how she feels. Leave it a while and then call, but don't sound desperate - that scares most people off.
2007-02-05 01:11:21 · answer #2 · answered by rock_and_roll_machine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're in the same boat. My ex of four years and I broke up a year and six months ago, and up to now i still love him very much and i can't get him off my mind. His pictures are still in my iPod..i always listen to the songs we used to love..i still visit his cousins who are very close to me. Obviously, i haven't moved on yet. Sometimes become bitter and i want to curse love. I mean, you get that feeling that you gave everything yet your everything still isn't enough to make him stay. You tried to be perfect but still you're trying in vain. It's really hard, and you get the big phobia of falling in love again and risk getting hurt again.
It amazes me that we have a lot in common. Even if i am the girl, im the one who's more expressive and loving between the two of us. I've realized that the more you express your love, the more you are being taken for granted. So i suggest that you distance yourself from her first. MAKE HER MISS YOU. MAKE HER REALIZED AND FEEL YOUR ABSENCE. im sure she'll notice a big difference since you made a big part of her life by loving her..
but if she doesn't return...
then, it's time to move on...
My advice? Deal with it. Time heals all the wounds and so should you. You can't rush into moving on, you have to pass through several stages until you could say 'i survived!'. By now im sure you have the mottos 'love sucks', 'love is stupidity' etc....
1.) throw away all her mementos, photos, and eveything that reminds you of her.
2.) Spend more time with your friends and family.
3.) Keep yourself busy.
4.)Avoid listening to mellow music, esp. the songs both of you loved to listen to,
5.) Keep a list of all the bad things she did to you and tack them next to your bed.
6.) Sever all of your communications with her.
7.) Avoid seeing her.
8.)Avoid the places she frequents.
9.)Convince yourself that you don't deserve her.
Remember this:
GOD TAKES AWAY WHEN HE HAS SOMETHING BETTER TO GIVE
2007-02-05 01:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by frisky_pink_bunny22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/yJuWL
Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.
The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.
Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
2016-04-28 22:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by shantell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She finished the relationship,if shes not texting you she's not interested,if she only wants friendship be satisfied with that or leave her alone. There is nothing worse than loving someone that doesn't feel the same but if she is unsure about you then just let it be and stop all contact. Good luck.
2007-02-05 00:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by fairyb04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she was just using you for a rebound from her ex.... The best thing to do is forget her it was only 7 weeks, If you cant handle being her friend tell her to leave you alone and move on!!
2007-02-05 04:01:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a chance to get over her ex,let her do the running.Hope things work out for you.
2007-02-08 07:00:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-03 16:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her
2007-02-04 23:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋