I slept with a guy, few days ago. Now he is showing his clear disinterest in marrying me, but isn't giving up calling me each day. If i want him marry me, wat could b done at my best? Is it atall possible to get him back into the track?
2007-02-04 23:49:17 · 15 answers · asked by rani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you two are wanting different things out of this. You want marriage. He wants a booty call.
Find a different guy, a more mature guy looking for more out of life than just a one night stand.
2007-02-04 23:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you slept with him, thinking or believing that by doing so he will marry you, then you are obviouslyy wrong. May be because your expectations are different, you feel disappointed. Unless, of course he promised you to marry you, before the two of you went to bed. In that case, he is to blame!
I do not know what to advise you, really. Some people, in a closed knit societies, would trap him into pregnancy. Others will develope the relationship into something deeper with love and affection, which will eventually might lead to marriage or steady relationship. Others would just stop it there and then!
Pick up your choice in accordance with your situation.
All the best.
2007-02-05 08:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not showing interest in marriage, it means he is not ready right now.. give it time at least he is still calling you right?
you can't base your wanting to get married with the fact that you slept with him.. the best for you to do is to tell him that someday you would like to get married and continue to see him.. if after a while he is still not in the track of getting married then is time to move on.. just give it time. good luck.
2007-02-05 07:58:36 · answer #3 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him some time, he might just need to think about your relationship for a bit. Guys can get freaked out after the first time you're together if they truly care about you. So in a way, it's a good sign. He probably just needs to run things thru hs mind for a bit and he will come around after that. Don't worry! If he loves you, he will still want to marry you. Just give him some space to think
2007-02-05 07:54:28 · answer #4 · answered by citygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep with a guy without being in a committed relationship that is the quickest to get him not to marry you.
2007-02-05 07:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If yu don't have any respect in your Body. At least give your Heart some Love. Jumpin' & Bumpin' ain't doin' either of `em any good. You'd be warned to take care of That Ticker of yours. If it gets broke? it'll take Major Surgery to fix. And Years to heal. I wish you Peace.
2007-02-05 07:54:40 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to get married, find a guy that wants to get married too.
2007-02-05 07:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cause you sleep with him doesn't mean he's going to marry you..
if you want him to marry you.. why don't you show him what a good little house wife you can. be cook all his meals.. do his laundry.. keep the place spotless..
actually.. just wait till he's ready he'll marry you when he's ready
2007-02-05 07:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he only wants sex from you quit seeing him and start over with someone new but do not sleep with them until you are in love or married.
2007-02-05 07:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have marriage on his mind, he wants more sex from you. The best thing you can do is let him know it ain't gonna happen. His actions will tell you what you need to know.
2007-02-05 07:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋