is it hard to find that special someone? Why is that apart from the obvious reasons like "they are married or gay" at the stage..... No offence to anyone. It's just one of those nights where I've alot of time in my hands and nothing to do that's evoking these thoughts... Any feedback is appreciated :)
2007-02-04 23:28:31 · 8 answers · asked by brown_sugah064 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh God, I'm 33 and now I feel like an old bag! I know what you mean though, you go thru a series of relationships/dating and nothing pans out. You start to question your role in this life and whether you'll ever meet anyone, have a family etc. I truly think if you go looking for love, you won't find it. It's when you have money in your hand and you go shopping for that perfect pair of shoes, but can't find them. Then when your money is gone, you stumble upon just what you were looking for! Simplified: Don't go looking for love. Be yourself, enjoy life, enjoy your family & friends and before you know it, someone will come along that may just be the one. Good Luck
2007-02-04 23:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think this is true anymore. I think the divorce rate has a big effect. There used to not be alot of single people over 35 (not 25 -most 25 year olds are single) but now w the divorce rate there are statiscally more single than married people in this country. My mother for example married 3x's - the last time at age 38. My father has been married 2x - the last time at age 51. I have several friends who are currently getting divorced and will be rejoining the dating pool soon - one of them has already been asked out 2x but 2 different men but she wont date until the divorce is final.
2007-02-04 23:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd always heard that, and after I got divorced in my late 30s, I pretty much expected to spend the rest of my life alone----and I was okay with that. Instead, I ended up meeting someone special when I least expected it, and we ended up getting married several years later (we are both 44 now).
The main thing is to work on living a life that makes you feel happy and fulfilled without depending on another person to do it for you. That way, if someone comes along and you fall in love, it's just the icing on the cake. But if not, you have a rich and satisfying life as a single person. Remember that being truly happy comes from within---not from another person.
2007-02-04 23:38:45 · answer #3 · answered by ms_quiltsalot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till you 35 you good , the more you older the more you meet mature people and that would last for long time
2007-02-04 23:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by Spicatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age doesn't really matter.....you just need to get out there and expose yourself (not literally!) to as many people as you can.....be active in your community, join some clubs or networking groups, get out and about enjoying life....you will meet someone special...good luck
2007-02-04 23:32:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, you should have got into a relationship earlier. Then again, it may not have been your choice and infact, you're just unattractive in both personality and looks and your age is just making it harder. Poor you. Hehehehehe!
2007-02-04 23:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
People are a trip. Some are still doing the same **** they were way back when and haven't learned a damn thing.
2007-02-04 23:31:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not understood
2007-02-04 23:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋