We were in love 15 years ago but I let him go'cos he had mentioned a school sweetheart he had promised marriage to & I didnt let him know I loved him as I was afraid of rejection.He says he didnt admit his love to me 'cos he felt back then I was above his league( I am older than him by 3 years). And he says the reason we are not together now is because I didnt want to get with him. He also points out that he did say he loved me but I never reciprocated.Which is true.Getting back to the present, he's married to this same girl/no kids,I'm married to a very nice man/1kid.My ex & me are in contact via email.He came to see me once.We both discovered we both still have the same chemistry. He wanted sex ,I refused.He said he was ok with that,he'd rather have me in his life without sex than not have me at all.We speak to each other regularly.We both agree we are sexually compatible with each other & not with our spouses.But what worries me is his wife is so beautiful,what's he doing with me??
2007-02-04 23:27:05 · 9 answers · asked by april showers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont think that you are the first woman he has asked to sleep with him..hes a rat who cheats on his wife..keep away from him..dont get involved with him he is bad news.
2007-02-08 20:03:31 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your spouses know you both are in contact?? you could be each others soulmates stranger things have happened but i wouldnt even contemplate a relationship before agreeing if it's going to go somewhere and then i'd leave your spouses first and start a fresh. and as for thinking how beautiful the wife is etc beauty is in the eye of the beholder outside beauty doesnt mean shes beautiful inside so dont think about that side of it.
2007-02-04 23:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absence makes the heart grow fonder and now he is no longer absent. Give it time and you will both realise it is nothing more than fantasy. Don't cross the line with a sexual relationship, it will not work and everyone will be left picking up the pieces.
2007-02-04 23:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not necessarily about looks .... you have a hold on him, so that goes beyond that. You have kids though, so don't be selfish on this one ...
Chances are you've both spent 15years with it at the back of your mind, and now this is making you feel young again, feeling like you did back then - but it probably won't last when reality sets in, and you have so much to lose
2007-02-04 23:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Toying with his food? He's playing mind games with you. Have you noticed how you seem to agree with every thing he's proposed? Its just a matter of time before he argues you into bed. If you value your marriage to your very nice man. I think you should not email or see this ex of yours again.
2007-02-04 23:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you sound like your just trying to travel to he past, before you do anything you both need to think would either f you actually leave your current partners, could you go through all that cr*p just to see if you would work together
2007-02-04 23:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is playing with your mind and the only thing that he wants from you is a sh*g.
2007-02-04 23:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
listen it seems he loves u but ur married dont ever try to have sex with him and try not to see him or talk to him.
2007-02-04 23:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
be sincere with your husband.
2007-02-04 23:47:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋