Instead of girls having to cover themselves up in islamic countries to avoid guy pouncing on them and treateing them bad & attacking them like ithe veil is some sort of protection.
There is nothing wrong in looking and wanting to be with a girl.
As long as you dont do it in a nasty way and only if the girls wants you back.
Incidently why dont the guys have to cover up?
Why not educate boys into respecting girls even if naked
And respecting their right to pull guys and sleep with more then one just like the guys do.
Funny how in nudist camps and even swinger parties. The guys dont all pounce and rape the women.
Yet in islamic countires a girl simply showing their face gets them harrased or dead
As for viewing women as sex objects in the western world.
Well don't you realise girls do it with guys too like in boy bands, diet coke ads, etc.
And that the girls can be paid a fortune for simply being a girl.. so how is that exploiting
its not
2007-02-04 23:16:26 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Can't see how a girl getting to pick wheter to go to her keep fit job in a pole dance club in her ferrai, or Porche as exploitied.
But would view those in boring, crappy min wage jobs that way.
2007-02-04 23:17:33 · update #1
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Firstly no arbitary law... ie it says bso in a book it does not need justification can be allowed... Every law needs justification
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why does the nuns cover their heads...Cos most respective women believe they should cover their heads like Muslims....
DO christian or Jews boys respect naked girl....pls be realistic
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As said most guys if their girl mates posed for playboy for a few days it would be like wayhey check out Janie...then go back to normal as they like the whole person.
Just as someones attractive does not mean you disrespect them...
Sure some may try and pull a naked girl but if she does not want to fine.
If nobody pulled, nobdy would be married, fall in love and no kids.
Nuns aint that respected actually nore does coveribng up make you deserve respect as a nun say if you mistreat kids or teenagers or are cruel.
you get respect for treating others fairly & being nice
2007-02-05 00:00:45 · update #2
Plus as said in a nudist club people may admire the view both guys SND girls... but be friendly and only get kissy if both parties are up for it and they could do so if clothed as well.
Plus its not simply the body...
In the face is all persoanlity and idenity and friendlyness.
No face no humanity at all
2007-02-05 00:02:05 · update #3
I for one am friendly with girls who do jelly wreslting, have been in mixed pole dance clubs, have known barmaids who posed nude... does not make me think any less then them and only saw it as a fun thing...
Men and woemn interact and lust leads to love
2007-02-05 00:03:44 · update #4
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Islam promotes love-so say if a man sees a pretty looking girl he isn't suppose to look at her again on purpose. Any desires he has should be kept for his wife to keep him faithful.
you are assuming the guy is married... most are not... what happens with them... the idea of people being pretty and lustful is to get them to couple up.
And axtually its all the girls I know who are getting the sex and boyfriends... many guys get f all hence all that lust
2007-02-05 03:58:40 · update #5
Because that is the nature of this backward archaic religion. A lot of muslims want to be still in the dark ages
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2016-04-21 21:54:17 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are westerners so teased up and bitter by hijab or is it the fact that they are missing to see the bodies of muslim girls. Let them be what they want to be it is something good and will just protect society from further lust. Give me a break about the respect of guys to nude girls what an angel society or for sure you are not a man??? The Quran teached that men should not look at women and woman who as we all agree is the attractive factor in society and this is why they are used in commercials and strip dancing. The less clothes a woman has on, the more wrong signals she gives and wrong image about the type of liberal person she is thus giving those lusty men the a higher probability of appraoching her the wrong way. i am sure you are not a christian since hijab is in the christian religion nuns and Virgin Mary wore it.
2007-02-04 23:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by samah a 2 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Muslim men are taught to respect women, whether covered or not. BUT, practicing hijab shows everyone, men and women, that a women is modest. This will give an indication of a woman's character and spiritual beliefs. Women who cover are forcing everyone to see WHO she is and not what her body looks like. Most women want to be treated this way, but dressing in in certain ways attracts the wrong kind of attention.
I am American and I can tell you I experience NO sexual harassment in the Muslim country I live in and I don't always cover (though I do dress modestly).
2007-02-05 00:34:18 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ terry g ♥ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Like they say tradition is marrow deep. Allow me to enlighten you my friend it is not what it seems. You see, some of those girls when they wear those half-veils do a bit of flriting on their own, and oooh weeeee the eye make-up; don't get me started. The thing to watch out for is those shopping bags, those guys are throwing those phone numbers in like it is the next best thing to soccer.
It happens so you have to know. Also these guys are not above donning on the veil themselves if they know they can get away with it. Sure I'm a Muslim, yet you have to know the truth, the truth that I know. It doesn't change my mind though. I just shake my head and by the way never wore the veil and what I've just told you is why.
2007-02-05 05:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dude, your post is too long so I'm just gona make this short and sweet.
The Islamic rule that women must cover up is nothing to do with respect that men lack for women-its more to do with lust men will feel when they see a woman. Most men have natural desires that are driven insane by flesh-fact! Come on, most of us have heard about the fact boys think of sex more than women. If Islam registers the fact we are sexual beings whats the problem in that?
Men are asked to cover too.Men in Islam must cover from their chest to above the knee.
As for women in Islamic countries getting harrassed by just showing their fact-perleeeeeeeeeeeeeeze! I visit Pakistan quite a lot and often see women with no head scarves etc going about their business without harrassment.
Islam promotes love-so say if a man sees a pretty looking girl he isn't suppose to look at her again on purpose. Any desires he has should be kept for his wife to keep him faithful. I guess you could say Islam is stating men are weaker in the department of sex and not straying....
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If a guy ain't married the rule is this...to stop having lustful thoughts he must FAST! Simple. By fasting he is cleansing his soul of these thoughts that he CANNOT act on. So there you go.
Also, to the lady who mentioned about the phonenumber business. Oh yeah, you get flirts in any religion. But I don't think we're meant to be debating that....
2007-02-05 03:01:19 · answer #6 · answered by princessofpop1983 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
look at the number of rapes across Europe in particular Scandinavian countries. There has even been a news black out on describing the people as Muslim due to fear of being branded islamaphobic
There is a rape wave going through Norway in particular by Somalians which has resulted in Oslo having rape statistics 5 times higher than new york!
2007-02-05 00:09:28 · answer #7 · answered by Abdul 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry to burst your bubble dude but I'm an American and can tell you that we are no better. We may have the laws to give women equal opportunities but we have loads of cases of disrespecting them as well not to mention the sexual exploitation. I think it is very insulting of you to say that Muslim men are all alike. Imagine if Americans didn't have the freedoms that it didn't enjoy today, do you think we would treat our women fairly as well?
Ironically, Pakistan ( A muslim country) voted a woman( Benazir Butto) two times into office as the president of their country. Unlike us who have not even voted one into office yet. I suggest you stop playing your banjo and try and be more of an educated man. Now get off of your couch, and go and meet some Muslims. You might be very suprised how much more educted they are than you .
2007-02-04 23:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by ARMCHAIR WARRIOR 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Murder is the number one cause of death for pregnant women in the USA. I didn't know that ... until I almost became a statistic.
He practised both Catholicism and domestic violence.
Maybe the issue your talking about is really about equal rights and culture ... not about Religion, per se. Every consider that?
2007-02-08 19:31:39 · answer #9 · answered by ... 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because Islamic laws, (made by men), dictate that women cover up, also if an Islamic woman wanted to accuse a man of rape, she MUST have at least one male eye witness, if a Islamic man accuses his wife of adultery, ( true or not), she is buried up to her waist in the ground, and stoned to death!
OK if you are sick of your wife!
Also last year Egypt announced that genital mutilation was not a Islamic necessity but a preference!
Girls clitoris and inner lips are cut off, and sewn up, to stop premarital sex, and it has been reported that husbands, on their wedding night, taking a knife to their bride to open them up!!!
It is NOT bad education, it is a sick, evil religion, exploiting women, and woman's rights!
2007-02-04 23:32:20 · answer #10 · answered by tattie_herbert 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋