2007-02-04 22:33:29 · 12 answers · asked by namita p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It seems your are desperately looking forward to live separately with your husband in your own house. Well this is nothing new in Indian society now, it is happening for the last so many years. Nowadays brothers separate when they get married, leave the joint family & start their own family unit. So you will get this opportunity to get away as soon your brother in laws get married if not yet, & your sister in laws get married & settle down. Once these responsibilities are over your husband will comfortable to move out.
2007-02-05 15:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can we say that?Is it depends upon astronomy or anything such?so that we will calculate the timing and say .Is it due to some family problem that u want to live separately.Then u should say about that and then ask us what should you say to your husband to convince him. Unless you express yourself properly how could you manage a family singlehandedly. You will make a mess of it. Think of your capability.Nowadays it has become a craze to settle a separate family.And another thing, why in your own home. Go, buy a separate house,do something in your own hand and then enjoy the fruit of it.
2007-02-06 01:25:22 · answer #2 · answered by I think,therefore I am 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why u want to move out from the joint family? many advantages u have with joint family and very few disadvantages. just weigh the advantages and disadvantages u will know the answer. think and ur in-laws.
i dont understand why every women want to stay away from the joint family? R u afraid of something or just trying to make an ego issue?
if ur husband is willing to take the responsibility of his parents why u want to discourage him.
his parents must be getting old now, they need him with them. they hv done their duty now its ur and ur husband's duty to take care of them. dont run away, together u can make the difference. u must hv read the story in childhood that the bunch of sticks couldnot be broken while its easy to break seperately.
Enjoy the togetherness all the best.
2007-02-04 22:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by sanjayvalecha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When u force him to do it without considering all the facts/rationally.To live in joint family is having good no.of +ves./It all depends on u r Rational./irrational decision/ depends on so many factors/u ought weigh it,is it going to help u for long time or prejudicial/momentary impulse which blurred u r judgement/not easy to answer by any outsider/ iT ALL DEPENDS ON A LOT OF FACTORS
2007-02-05 03:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by snyl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to him about it. Its not easy to move frm a joint family to an individual house as all the elders will have to approve it and they will make an issue out of it. But make them understand its important you move.
2007-02-04 22:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by Advengal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead to stay separate with family, but always make a point to visit your family every week. One day he might suggest back he wants to go back to family or you feel better to stay separate. Always experience make our life better.
2007-02-06 06:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by yogasun2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are advantage stage in a joint family + disadvantage also. He may be enjoying the advantages.
2007-02-04 22:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by Expression 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the time is now. He can drag his feet all he wants but you're going.
2007-02-04 23:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it to your husband.
2007-02-06 00:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by manoz kakkar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Iam not your husband. lol
2007-02-04 23:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋