2007-02-04 22:27:41 · 18 answers · asked by jazz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are both adults, then you have to decide whether or not your relationship is mature enough to handle objections by your parents. If you can overcome your parents' criticism, then still try to maintain the relationship if the trust, respect, honesty, and love is there. Many times you'll find this in an interracial relationship. I think they may just be concerned for your overall success and happiness. Ask them why they object? Then both of you and your girlfriend should sit down with them to discuss it all together.
2007-02-04 22:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the two of you are of age. You will just have to do what you feel is best for you. Chances are the women (any) you become involved with will never be the right one. In the eyes of your parents. And unfortunately, some people are really hung up on this race, culture, ethnic thing. Live and let live. If you love her and she loves you. We are not promised another day on this earth. Live within the moment and make the best of each one. Good luck and God bless****
2007-02-04 22:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply by your asking I would think you are not mature enough to be in a relationship that will have problems on several levels (your parents, the race difference, the age difference, and normal relationship stuff) sadly many people still think these things are important. A mature adult would realize and possibly say "This is my relationship, my love, my life and like it or not mom & dad she will share my life because I love her. I hope you can except that for my sake. I love you both however this relationship is for her and I, not you."
2007-02-04 22:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Trust Only Your Vet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live your life by someone else's ideas you will NEVER be happy. Listen with your heart but use your mind also. Only you can decide what's best for you and just because someone is from another race or culture doesn't mean that a relationship can't work. It's a team effort and you both have to be ready to commit.
2007-02-04 22:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by JusMe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you don't want to "disappoint" your parents.
But, all that matters is that you are happy. It is your relationship and your life. If you truely love this woman, then don't reject the relationship because your parents object. Parents have or should have unconditional love for their young.
They may not like it at first, but hopefully they will come to accept and get to know the woman.
Good Luck...
2007-02-04 22:45:47 · answer #5 · answered by alwaysamarinewife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance' is 13 years younger than I am. Granting that you are both legal age, you love each other and you're both willing to weather the storm of prejudice then go for it! TRY to be prepared for your parents rejection, if it happens it will STILL hurt. Make sure she's worth it. Remember that ya'll aren't the first interracial couple and Good luck!
2007-02-04 22:36:34 · answer #6 · answered by LadyLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course! why would u let your parents choose for u? u know yourself better than anyone else and if you love this person, if u feel this is the one for u then, regardless of age or race or religion or whatever, go for it!!! just follow ur instinct and u'll regret nothing coz every moment of it would definitely be a complete bliss even if it may not turn how u want it to be. still, you can be proud of urself coz u followed what u feel.
2007-02-04 22:35:28 · answer #7 · answered by icey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES-if you are grown. It is your decision, and your parents will just have to understand. If you are truly in love and both are willing to deal with the issues that come with age difference and race, then why not go for the gusto?
2007-02-04 22:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by MNBound 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love and age know no age or race. And when it comes to your parents, they aren't the ones dating this woman, you are.
2007-02-04 22:31:35 · answer #9 · answered by lilmthead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love knows no boundaries... it's your life, not your parents. You may regret it forever if you dont give it a try.
Your parents may come round eventually when they see how much you love her.
I believe that love between two partners should be the strongest bond of them all. good luck : )
2007-02-04 22:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by Frankie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋