What is She expecting from me..?
What is She expecting from me..?
I am confused. I am single and dating a girl, who is in a relation, but her bf is living in another country. (dont know if i can call it dating. we go clubbing, movies, and just a walk etc.) We talk about anything. she even comes to my place and watch movies with me. I never tried to kiss her, even if i wanted, coz i know she is in a relationship. And she mention that if she was single, she would have liked me. Actually someone please advice me, what she is expecting.
2007-02-04 21:42:24 · 12 answers · asked by master J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she's quite attracted to you but she doesn't expect more than good friends. She'll tell you if she wants more. I got some information that usually girl start to ask first. Is it true?
2007-02-04 22:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Yakusoku 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't expecting much. She may be confused and saying if she were single you would be someone she would be interested. I don't think she has any real expectations of you. Although, I would ask her point blank if is expecting anything else, because if she is you are not interested as she is taken.
It might also be she is starting to ssee that maybe the long distance thing isn't wha she had in mind and is starting to explore her feelings on that and is talking out loud...well, rather thinking out loud.
I would keep being her friend but, do not under any circumstances go beyond that. Unless you know for a fact that she is single and your interested.
Sometimes us women find a guy who is really cool to hang out with, and we start analyzing our relationship with who ever we are with. We don't have any expectations from you the friend, but, it sure makes us wonder who we are with and if they is ANY trouble..it forces us to think if its really worth it.
But, also on the other side of the coin, there are the girls that start trying to get something on the side by starting with little comments like that.
You know her best, so all I can do is tell you my expierence.
Honestly, right now it sounds as if she is reflecting on her own relationship, and paying you a compliment on top of it.
Good luck.
2007-02-04 21:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's expecting you to be her friend. If you enjoy her company I would suggest not making any moves or she might quit talking you. If she is expecting you to make some kind of pass at her, is that what you really want? To be with a girl who is commited to some guy out of the country? If so, prepare yourself for a world of drama.
2007-02-04 21:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by 444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath, now release.
She is probably enjoying your company and maybe thinking of getting closer, what will happen if her boyfriend comes back? Will you still be in each other's company?
Give her some time out and wait for her to contact you, then you'll know if she is interested.
If she is...Then of course you'll have to tell her that you ain't gonna be the other man...
Good Luck
2007-02-04 22:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by Apie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absence, makes the Heart grwon fonder. She's wantin' him. But using you. If you feel squeezed? Ask her to see what you're going through. She may just be wanting to flush out your thoughts. Take the chance. It'll only come around once, in your Life. Remember to pay it forward! Good Luck!
2007-02-04 21:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she just wants a friend. Her boyfriend isn't here to be with her to be her friend so she has found that in you. If i were I would not try to kiss her because they may push her away from you...just see what happens..your friend ship with her may lead to more..
2007-02-04 21:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by MB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are calling your self a master, she is looking for a bit of action on the side, she wants to cuddle with you and have sex with you. it don't matter that she is in a relationship, some times girl don't even know them selves what they want, you have to show it to them. come on Master and Commander. get with the program man.
2007-02-04 21:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's doing it bcuz her boyfrend is out.my boyfrend was,i was being close to this guy.& it seemed i was falling 4 him & the guy thot 2so but everything changed when my boyfrend came back,she feels lonely & u there 4 her.
2007-02-04 22:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she likes to go with you because she is lonely that her boyfriend not around many girl would do the same but if you like her just tell her how you feel.
2007-02-04 21:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by nova y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She want's friends without benefits.
2007-02-04 21:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋