I am an attractive young woman. I am in college pursuing a career I love and working in the field. I am open-minded, easy to please and willing to please. I cannot see why I am alone. So lonely. Born in July, Im love to nuture naturally. Why do men compliment my beauty, but are denied sex or get sex and then leave? I want my 1. Is something wrong with me? I do not attempt to control anyone. All I want is for my 1 to come home and hold me at night; eat the food I cook. Why is it so hard to find someone to love?
2007-02-04 21:18:50 · 10 answers · asked by Kla A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound lovely, I was compelled to read your question !
Some fair responses about listening to your heart, not using sex to define a relationship and not hiding your emotions. To be honest with you the "Law of Attraction" is working for/against you ! Don't get me wrong it has NOTHING to do with how attractive you are, but simply put, "...we become what we think about most of the time", or you attract into your life the situations and events you focus upon most of the time. As an athlete for instance if I focus on "...no dropped balls, no missed tackles" than inevitably I'll start to make mistakes in my game ! Just as if you focus on "...whats wrong with me, why am I still single" you'l ultimately remain single. Take a step back, look at whats unique and beautiful about you and resolve in YOUR mind first that your beautiful and loving and any man would love to be with you. Ever notice that when it rains it pours ! It does actually work like that!
2007-02-04 21:46:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen Sweetie' I'm a single guy i know what you are talking about. It's hard for us guys to. But here is the way i look at it. I am comfortable with myself. Yes' i would like to have someone in my life. I don't let that define me. I love myself whether any body else loves me or not. When you get to the point where you are comfortable with your self and love yourself then you will find the right one 4 u. If you don't just keep on going and don't let it define you. Also don't be so willing to give it up. It will not make a man stay with you. Respect your self then others will respect you.
2007-02-05 05:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are looking too hard you will not find one and end up as an old maid.But it is nothing to be worried about.You dont expect everyone to get married.In fact in some countries there are more women than men So how do you expect each one to have a husband.Just enjoy life as a single person.Keep youself busy Have alot of friends both male and female even if they wont marry you.But dont cheapen youself by having sex with them Let then be just friends to talk to.No one died fron being single.lift your head high and live life to the full.
2007-02-05 05:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to change the type of men you persue. That or your approach alltogether with men. There's an old saying. Why buy the cow, when you can get the milk for free. A lot of men, still hold true to that. Not saying all men, just that maybe getting to know someone for a while and putting sex off! Could lead to the one.
2007-02-05 05:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lovely Lady? You've forgotten where Love is found. it's in The Heart. It's in the thumping sound, that you've neglected. Don't just go from the Gut. Listen to what Your Heart is saying. It's really beautiful, if you take the time. If your Heart is anything as Beautiful as you are? You're a Winner, already. he's out there. Listen! Remember to pay it forward.
2007-02-05 05:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hav patience! there is no need to be worried coz love will find u! may u hav a successful love life!
2007-02-05 05:33:41 · answer #6 · answered by shalin j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,well, first thing i wanna say, i hope u will get 1 early
seems to me shyness in your nature, and lack of ability to define your true emotion.
what best i best suggest you.
--do not hide ur emotion
--put some give up sorts of thing in ur nature
--do not wait,just grab
--be romantic
2007-02-05 05:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have just read your question,i m from france and love australian girl,if you come in france ,there are a lot of boy friend for you
kiss
2007-02-05 05:28:09 · answer #8 · answered by sanchofamilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have not sead any thing about your behavior or your ability in communication .may be you have some problems in these categories.
2007-02-05 05:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by karbasmak2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouln't go out looking for it thats why its not happening for you.
2007-02-05 05:25:06 · answer #10 · answered by drightchristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋