2007-02-04 21:01:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
had same problem of how to introduce new boyf to my daughter. decided to to do it on neutral ground so i took my daughter to the park first then he came along about 15 mins later i went armed with food and a football it was all really casual and we had fun, i did speak to her first and ask if she wanted to and did the same with boyf. now everything is cool and any major decisions that affect her and us we include her and take her feelings in to consideration which is important and try to come to a solution that we all can agree on and it's working out well
2007-02-04 22:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by womble 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to meet you and your kids at the local playground. Just picture it man, the sun shining down whilst you guys sit under the shade of a tree having a picnic. Kids all smily and happy in the company of a strong and loving father. Women get all mushy over all that paternal stuff.
The best thing is the kids get all konked out and have an early sleep while the adults stay up and have a play of their own!
...M0uthpiece...
2007-02-05 05:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, I am telling you this from experience!!! First of all you have got to tell her about your kids upfront, so that there are no hidden surprises!!! Tell her how much you love your kids and that you would like THEM to meet HER because she's also now important to you. Also tell your kids about your girlfriend. Tell them how much you love them and that you always will love them but you need some to look after you, etc, etc.
The rest is easy. I do not think it then matter where they should meet and how they/or she should behave or react as l long as THEY WOULD LIKE to meet her and similarly SHE WOULD LIKE to MEET THEM. Just let events take a natural path without worrying yourself too much. I should work out. I hope it does.
2007-02-05 05:16:00 · answer #3 · answered by Yahia M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them meet on neutral territory, take them to the park or somewhere fun. The first time I met my boyfriends 2 youngest kids, we stayed in a caravan over the Easter holidays in Cornwall. It was great fun and really gave us a good chance to get to know each other.
2007-02-05 05:07:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should bring your girlfriend and kids out somewhere that the kids would love and tell them she is someone you work with and she is new and you wanted to show her around.don't told her hand or anything like that.then when you get home you should ask them do they like her and if they say yes then tell them but take things slowly with her when there around because she is not there really mum and they might think that you don't love her anymore.and they might think your leaving them out..............!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-02-05 06:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by blond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are that nervous about it then there is something wrong, is she a H0re. is she a bar dancer. is she by any chance not supposed to be your girl. IF NOT then what is wrong, she is just a normal girl and you should have no problem introducing her to you family, after all you are the father right?
2007-02-05 05:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just have a nice meal ad have u and your girlfriend and the kids sit down
2007-02-05 05:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by ant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring them round to meet her...
2007-02-05 05:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋