we're so much in-love with each other. we live together in singapore but i'm staying in thailand so i've to go back to work. after a month he has a new girl and dumped me. how can true love fades so fast?
2007-02-04 20:59:38 · 15 answers · asked by CANDY© 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we're so much in-love with each other. we live together in singapore but i'm staying in thailand so i've to go back to work. after a month he has a new girl and dumped me. how can true love fades so fast? how can i ever trust again?... when i knew we felt true love and it's gone just like that?
2007-02-04 21:55:05 · update #1
I'm sorry bout your situation..but if it's really true love..it wouldn't have faded so fast. I'm sure you realize that too...its just that you're hurting now..and need to hear the truth over and over again..till you are ready to accept it.
If he can get a new girl this fast..he probably would do the same thing or even cheat on you even if you both got back together again and tried a long distance relationship. Sometimes, these kinda relationships just don't work for everyone. They may need their partner right next to them all the time.
You will continue to hurt for sometime..but it will pass soon enough ok. Patience and prayer. You'll find true love. Don't stop loving..it will come to you. Good luck.
2007-02-04 21:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by KIV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good friend once told me, the best way to get over the pain of losing a relationship, is to find another. Go out and find a date, just for the evening.. it will make you feel better and think more clearly. You have gotten yourself so wrapped up in this person you are not thinking clearly. Any man that would dump YOU in that situation.. is clearly NOT a man, but a selfish child. You deserve better and that's allyou need to focus on. When the pain fades, you'll kick yourself for wasting this much time and thought on somebody that did you wrong. True love knows no bounds, not time nor space, true love never fades away nor dies, but lives forever and compells us like nothing else can. I am sorry dear, it was not true love, just a mere illusion.
2007-02-13 01:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he so quickly got with another woman, he never truly loved you it was a one-sided love and that really hurts. Look at it as a blessing, you could of been married with children and he would of not only hurt you but the children also. Stay strong lick your wounds and move on. there is a big world out there full of men willing to be at your beck and call. Go out and find the man that truly completes you. Good luck
2007-02-05 05:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by sayj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably he dumped you because when you left to Thailand he probably thought you were never going to see each other again and thought you were going to date another guy but when you came back he still had that image and dumped you. Since that happened try meeting other people.
2007-02-12 23:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by EsaiahB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Candy. I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. Obviously it was a one-way love. His love, if it ever really existed, was only shallow and for his convenience. It hurts now but soon, you'll be stronger and you'll just hit yourself on the head for ever falling in love with him. Like the others have written, try your best to just move on. You'll be a lot wiser, hopefully, in the future. You have to trust again. You can't live life NOT trusting anyone. It's impossible. Again, sorry for your pain. 'Tang ina nya!!!
2007-02-06 15:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Leo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys are frickle minded. They love a girl then once their gone, they think 'oh, why miss out on all the fun? i might as well get another girl' and dump you. Careful, there are lots of guys out there just like that. they are USING you for the fun of love, not the real love.
2007-02-05 05:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not true love at all, don't kid urself. You might love him, but he don't...a guy that changes his heart easily is not a good guy. It's good that u know it now than later..be happy, dun be sad cos of a jerk like him...what goes around comes around, who knows he might be played by that girl...cheer up!
2007-02-05 05:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by DooGie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get on with your life and stop obsessing with it, that is a start don't you think so. I mean he is gone and here you are setting on your a$$ and crying for him like some snatched a candy out of a kids hand. come on. you are too grown up to do that.
2007-02-05 05:03:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mike 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some men are pigs and want something new and exciting, try and meet someone new, get him jealous.....maybe he'll come around. I don't like playing games like this....but it may be worth a try, i am sorry for you.
2007-02-05 05:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
like i said Candy, the rest agreed too. Move on and forget him. Concentrate on your work now.
2007-02-05 09:12:57 · answer #10 · answered by gwee1.geo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋