my bfriend left me at christmas said went to stay at brothers and then i found out that 3wks ago he went back to his ex wife cause his brother kicked him out and no where toi go. Know he says they are not together properly they dont share same bed! and he wants to still be with me! i went out with him sat night had such a laugh was great but reality has kicked in this am should i go with the flow and trust him?
2007-02-04 20:58:37 · 16 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please dont be sucked into believing what he says....this is very similar to what I have just gone thru.
They will say anything, believe me..!!
2007-02-04 21:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Phew that was hard to read!
Ok.. firstly, why did you break up again? Have you not moved on?
Then why did his brother kick him out? Maybe because he didnt meet the rent? Then why did he seek shelter from his ex? Again.. because he probably got no decent job good enough to look after himself.
He sounds like a loser.. He cant manage his own life & runs to others for help.. He is dead weight on you.. move on!
2007-02-04 21:06:02 · answer #2 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Purdy
The short answer to your question is NO
Trust has to be earned
Why has he put himself in a position that would obviously cause doubt in the mind of a nun.
He did not HAVE to move in with her at all & if he really cared about you & not just somewhere to sleep, he would have made other arrangements so as to make his position clear
2007-02-08 03:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by healer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not up to marry him, even if you are, give it a try. He might be true in all these, and he might really love you. Spend some times, dating him and spending some times with him, besides continue with your invistigation about him, to find out the true self of him. And then take your decision. that wont harm any way.
2007-02-04 21:23:08 · answer #4 · answered by Alkahest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why didnt he come back to you when the brother kicked him out.Tell him that your freindship continues on condtion that he immediately leaves the ex wife and comes back to you. If he refusses leave him it is time to look for someone new
2007-02-04 21:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch this loser now! Go on text him!! How would he feel if you moved in with your ex?? I can answer that as well, hes a typical bloke and would hate it and probably go nuts!! Dont trust this guy, get yourself a new one. He's playing you.
2007-02-04 21:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he cheated on you?? (I personally would say it isn't cheating if he did anything after he split with you) If not and you still feel some thing for him then I would say give it a go, it will be awkward with him still being at his ex's but if you still want him and he still wants you its worth a go
2007-02-04 21:06:57 · answer #7 · answered by Soul Reason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's got a choice of living with you or his ex wife,shouldn't he live with you. Sounds a bit strange to me.Just cos they don't share a bed doesn't mean it's okay.
2007-02-04 21:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by heebygeeby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry not while he his living at his ex wife.
2007-02-08 06:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woman to woman don't believe that Bullshit, u know in your heart he is playing u and his ex wife. don't let him do this to you. men dishonest men prey on women with low self esteem and someone who will believe their lies. dump him now and move on quickly
2007-02-04 21:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your getting a male lodger and see how he reacts. Don't fall for it, he shouldn't be disrespecting you like this.
2007-02-04 21:05:16 · answer #11 · answered by yeahbutnobut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋