This is our second date and no kiss. she is drivin me crazy and i want to tell her how i feel should i? we went to the movies and it was great i drove her home and then we talked in the car for a half hour i didnt make a move : ( and now i feel like a fool.
will i txt her and say i shud have kissed you last nite or just say i have sumtin to ask you and ask if she feels the same?
2007-02-04 19:57:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Text her and tell her you wanted to kiss her or just kiss her the next time you see her.
2007-02-08 00:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her, text her or scream to her at the top of your lungs, just get her to see you as soon as possible. When the two of you are together again and if you feel you still want to kiss her, then kiss her. Now hold up a second, this must be done just right. Don’t grab her and force her into a kiss like in the movies, sure it looks great for the actors, and it sure seems romantic, but it is what it is, a movie. It gets rehearsed over and over till it’s perfect! In real life it’s never that simple. Try to kiss someone like that for the first time and your going to chip a tooth!
Now, here’s how to do this. Keep this thought in mind because it’s you first priority. The most important thing to remember is that she may not want to be kissed. Not yet anyway. Maybe not ever. But the only way you’re going to find out if she does want you to kiss her, is to kiss her.
Don’t ask her if she wants to be kissed, some people look at that a being soft and unsure of yourself. So that answers that question, don’t ask her. Also don’t ask her if she feels the same way. Tell her how you feel by moving closer to her. Don’t try to hide that you’re moving closer to her, let her see. If she moves away from you, that’s ok, don’t move away, unless she looks like you are making her sick.
At this point after you’ve moved closer to her and assuming she in still in the same room with you, she will know your intentions. Now, if she wants you to kiss her she may move to you.. Ask her with your actions and she will answer you with her actions.
Ready, here we go. You did brush your teeth right? And shaved your face real close? OK, now move in nice and slow and steady, aim right for the corner of her mouth with yours, if she’s not pulling away at this point your half way there, remember don’t put her in a bare hug, don’t grab her face with your hands. The only guys that get away with that move are, once again the actors. Just keep moving your mouth to hers, always keeping rule number one in mind. Leave her room to move away if she wants to and she probability wont. She will see you respect her enough to give her an out and want to kiss you all the more.
If you do it like this you have the best chance of getting kissed back. Remember, if you ask her, she will most likely say no. Why? A thousand different reasons. asking could even change her mind from wanting to be kissed to no kiss if you ask with words. This way you’ll never have to wonder if you should have asked her first because you did with your actions, and you’ll never wonder, what if I had just kissed her. Because you did that too.
Remember, if you are always honest with yourself and follow your heart, you will always find the courage to be yourself and in that you will find your greatest happiness.
Good luck little Brother.
2007-02-04 21:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by ou812 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO! don't text!
don't ask, don't talk about it, and don't feel like a fool!
you're stressing over it too much. seriously. 2 dates isn't a big deal. next date, just do it. don't ask, don't discuss. you don't even have to wait til the end of the date. whatever seems like a good time. and don't apologize afterward or ask if it was okay that you did that. just kiss her nicely and watch her reaction. you'll probably get another immediate kiss right after that.
2007-02-04 20:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by soren 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If shes prepared to go on another date with you then she likes you - I wouldnt ask her or text or anything - next time you're with her and an opportunity arises just say to her "would you mind if I kissed you?" - Theres no way she'll say no - if she wasnt into you you wouldnt have met you again after the first date so trust me you'll get that kiss you've been dying for!
xx
2007-02-04 20:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having kiss after an outing is a natural occurance. The two of will be drawn to each other unconsciously when it is time. To ask for it or force it is unnatural. keep on the relationship you will see the right moment presenting itself naturally.
2007-02-04 20:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by halmonyng 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say wait for that perfect moment. You don't want to rush into things that way you don't scare her off. But if you guys have known each other and feel very comfortable around each other already, I would say give her a peck goodnight. Start off with a peck and if she goes along with it, then you go from there. You should tell her how you feel. That is very important and maybe she'll express herself as well. :-)
2007-02-04 20:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by CR 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on what shes like. Most probably you should say "I really wanted to kiss you late night" after a few txt messages.
2007-02-04 20:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by Game Guy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just kiss her. Don't go any further than that yet but take it gently and kiss her after your next date.
2007-02-04 20:02:41 · answer #8 · answered by marykin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont b hurry..,give some time to her,if she really loves u then u can ask her for a kiss.
2007-02-04 20:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by prasuna k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pick a moment when you are looking at each other, dont worry if she is mid sentence or you for that matter and just spontaniously but gently go for it, The tension will just disappear then comes the good stuff .................................lol
2007-02-04 20:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by Emma 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋