Ok so I had my best friend move in with me because he had no where else to go. He did NOT tell me straight up that it would never happen with us and I really had feelings for him. We tried it and it didnt work and he knows how i feel already and doesnt feel the same. we were friends with benefits for a year.I was pregnant when he moved in and he helped me during my whole pregnancy. He named my son. He has helped me raise him so far. Now he has a girlfriend and she and I dont get along. He wants time with her and he wants to do that in the apartment, and I feel like it is throwing it in my face and it is in front of me. It has gotten to be so much of a problem that we cant get through a day without arguing and he is moving out and he is going to move in with her. I dont want to lose my friend, but I am so hurt and so angry and frustrated over everything. It has made me physically, emotionally, and mentally sick and drained. What do i do?
2007-02-04 19:27:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The moment he has another girl friend the best thing you should do is to avoid him. I know it pains you a lot but that how it is and you just forget him and find another person mutually agreeable.
2007-02-04 19:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor you, this is not easy at all.. i guess you will go through the pain of a breakup there is no escape in that.. if he does not have feelings for you then there is nothing you can do to change that. As hard as this may sound and easier said than done, you have to move on.. your relationship with him will resume, you just need to take a break, maybe find someone else in your life adn your friend will always be there for you.. best of luck on this difficult situation
2007-02-05 03:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by gone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mellisa ,
The first thing is you are very soft hearted, and your friend has planed is everything well, he knows that you are a good friend and has taken the advantage out of it.
The second thing is he is just a friend.Friends comes and goes, think about ur kid and try to make ur life a wonderfull place for ur him.
DO NOT LET HIM TO MOVE IN TO UR APARTMENT WITH HIS GIRLFRIEND
LET HIM FIND HIS OWN PLACE, HE IS AN OPPERTUNIST.
But now u have to deal with him with a very friendly way and try to make him understand THAT U NEED TO LIVE A LONLY LIFE.
2007-02-05 03:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by michaelvanhoff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, he has a gf. U deserve someone more faithful and better. Time will heal u and get u a better deal.
2007-02-05 03:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go.He is not your husband or the father of your child.He moved in because he had nowhere to go.He now has somewhere to go so let him go.
2007-02-05 03:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i cant be arsed readng all this so the answer is 2
2007-02-05 03:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by hellwot 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋