women i could use your help too!!
2007-02-04 19:03:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he will come home from work every day say that he is tiered and just wants to relax.which is fine with me i have no problem giving him some space. but he will jump on the xbox right a way and play for 6 or 7 hours untill he wants to go to bed. sometimes he will miss work the next day cuz he was up to late playing gears of war. he has a dirty and stressful job and half the time he wont stop and take a shower!!! eww! i try to be understanding but its becomeing that i only get attention when he is waiting for his game rooms to fill up. like today he tryed to get me to have sex with him while waiting for his room to fill up headset and all. when he is not playing he is a wonderful boyfriend and father. i have tryed to play games with him but im just not very good at them so he wants to play online with people that can play. i mean if he was a super mario bros. junkie i would be all over it. but lately i have had to lift up my shirt and show him my boobs just so i can get his attention.
2007-02-04 19:45:08 · update #1
to awnser some of tessies q's yes she is his daughter shes 2. she will sometimes entertain herself but needs consant supervision. no he really doesnt pay attention to her when playing untill she gets infront of the tv then he will yell at her. i am not employeed but from medical reasons i have blood clots in my lungs and im on bed rest cuz they can come off my lungs and give me a heart attack. no he does not just give me a break. i am up from about 7 am to 10pm chaseing a 2 yr old against my doctors wishes. so yes he is being very selfish. he has always been a gamer but it has never been this bad untill about 4 months ago when we got xbox live. and i have shown interst in learning to play his games im just not very good.
2007-02-04 20:39:07 · update #2
Have you tried talking to him about it? I'm a hardcore gamer so I'm going to suggest that you take up an interest in gaming and play with him sometimes, you'll bond this way.But talk to him and decide on some alone time, having time set aside for you and the child will be good, suggest that he spends time with the 2 of you between certain hours. That way he'll have time to play his games and spend time with you also.
2007-02-04 19:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to say what you should do in this situation. First of all, Does your boyfriend pay attention to your/ his child ?? How old is your child ?? If your child is unable to entertain themselves, your boyfriend is being SELFISH !! Children need attention from BOTH PARENTS !! Does he "relieve you" or help out with caring for the child ....so that you have a break?? Are either of you employed ?? Have you shown an interest in learning how to play any of the games ?? Is your boyfriend willing to do something you enjoy ?? If so, that's a great start !! You both need to "compromise" and spend one night a week doing something that the other person shows an interest in.
You stated that you've been together for 4 yrs so, did he just start acting this way or has it been like this the whole time??
I hate to consider this option.... BUT, do you suspect he may be cheating on you and feels "stuck" because of the child you have together?? Is your boyfriend out with his friends alot (leaving you at home) with the child ?? Is he home every night ??
If he's home (with you) every night and provides the "basic neccessities" for your family unit ..... AND neither you or your chid are being abused... Let him play the X box..
BE THANKFUL !!
At least he's not as bad as some others are !!
It could be ALOT worse !!
Good luck !!
2007-02-04 20:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well considering your history it's safe to say that you're a lowlife and attract the wrong set of guys the first was a rapist this new ones a ex alcoholic what next? A flaming homosexual whose in the closet that you fail to pick up on because you're a moron! Hang it up lady you aren't good at discerning character and seem to always fall for the losers anyway so just put a end to it because this new one will probably lapse back into a bibulous state and screw you & the kids.
2016-03-15 07:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is comfortable with you and the relationship. Don't do something mean like breaking his xbox. Just be glad that he is not running around at the bar scene and you finding girls numbers on the cell. It could be worst. Try getting him out of the house and go on a date. Or be a loving girlfriend and support what he likes as he will do the same for you. There is nothing wrong with a hobby.
2007-02-04 19:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A guy whose been in a relationship for four years and has a child has no business being THAT interested in his X-box. You've got bigger problems than that with him. He's not mature enough to take on the responsibilities of a father or a mate. You need to get a MAN and he isn't it!!
2007-02-04 19:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everybody has thier own addictions but I think video game addiction is probably the least constructive and the most annoying addiciton there is..Tell him to grow up and let him know how you feel about the whole situation
2007-02-04 19:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by Nowhere Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had a kid, you didnt even insist he be legally the childs father, so what can you expect, you simply gave him what he wanted and now he doesnt care anymore. men need to chase a bit longer, once they have had the sex they are on to other things, usually the moment they get what they want they start chasing another woman, so hes likely doing that too. good luck. they dont buy the cow if someone gives them the milk free you know.
2007-02-04 19:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him what you feel. or like someone said, break it lol or when he wants sex tell him not until you stop playin your xbox and pay more attention to me. or start playin it and do the same thing to him when he wants you lol.
2007-02-04 19:09:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
probably wont get any better. my ex husband was the same only it was the internet and internet porn ( not xobx 360) . sorry :(
2007-02-04 19:15:00 · answer #9 · answered by lady26 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes,boy cannot pay more attention than his favourite things.Maybe you hav to talk to him about this things.
2007-02-04 19:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋