I don't have a sister like this ,but a brother...
the way I went about it...was in small doses...I tried to keep our time together brief...sounds bad I know...but the longer we are around each other the more I want to kick his behind.........or choke the living _____ out of him.....and we are older people....
when you get a hold of a ...know it all ...self centered ....spoiled rotten brat .....it has the tendency to bring out the worst of qualities in a person..or in my case it does...I found it best for all concerned to breeze in and out and keep at a respectable distance between times.....and if I am forced into a conversation....I try not to comment to much about anything......and if it feels like I am being pinned down on an issue that I know will result in an argument (which.. if I give an opinion..it will end in an argument)...I make excuses and leave .........
If your sister is under foot...you may just have to be honest and tell her to give you some space...tell her you can't stand her bratty ways ..that you are getting older and have more things to have to contend with and you don't need someone to add to it......
by the way...I do love my brother... I just can't stand to be around him for any length of time.....strange but true........
2007-02-04 18:14:32
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answered by LeftField360 5
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Stop the pattern of spoiling her ...you be the boss of things that are right and stand your ground
2007-02-04 17:48:26
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answered by kellygirl 3
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Sounds to me as if someone is jealous of her single older sister.
2007-02-04 17:50:02
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answered by Anonymous
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do you prefer to be her slave, or do you like some authority on your life? It feels like your sister has replace into egocentric and thoughtless of your help for her. in case you nonetheless help her and enable her abuse you, she can no longer replace. She is in basic terms making you her enemy simply by fact she has potential over your thoughts this manner. you may could come to settle for, that in case you do no longer provide into her each request, you would be her enemy. So be it. you may desire to do what's appropriate. once you tell her no, do no longer provide into arguing together with her. you already be attentive to it relatively is issue. leave. this is it, in basic terms leave her presence. close your door, do regardless of you may desire to do regardless of if it relatively is leave the homestead. She in all probability does have a puzzling time, yet you may desire to preserve your self each so often. there are in all probability different innovations for her, yet she would not parent them out simply by fact she would be able to place self belief in you. She needs to choose for herself a thank you to spend her funds wisely and use her time and potential properly. regrettably you residing at homestead, are in a puzzling place simply by fact they'll relatively be waiting to invade your area in many cases. My suggestion is to easily discover methods to stay busy and outdoors of the homestead. even nonetheless you graduated, in basic terms discover some retail interest, something to maintain you out of the homestead. it grants you some extra funds, perchance you may make a contribution to the kin in that way in case you experience it relatively is mandatory. in basic terms attempt to make this easier for you. you may could take a lot of guilt, yet attempt to undergo in innovations that a lot of it could relatively in basic terms be manipulation in hide.
2016-10-01 10:59:40
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answered by ? 4
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some *** kicking should wokr fine
2007-02-04 17:44:51
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answered by sickskillz883 5
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