My gf and me have been wanting to get more physical but she says that i cant do anything to her yet because she needs to go to the doctors about something with her lady parts she says thats is also the reason she has stomach aches a lot she is a virgin and has no stds (her and i are very honest but this is something that i cannot ask her cuz it is very personal) any ideas what is wrong with her lady parts?
2007-02-04 17:13:20 · 13 answers · asked by thescarsarethere 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she probably wants to get fitted for a diaphram... condoms alone aren't 100% effective and often get used wrong
2007-02-04 17:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe theres something with her period, i know i waited a long time with my boyfriend because my period was irregular and i didn't know if i was bleeding or not, she may go on the pill like i did or something else, just a guess. To be considerate, dont receive until shes willing to receive, that way its fair. shes probably scared that you will judge her if she tells you her problem, make sure she knows that is not the case and no matter what youll still be with her, if thats true...
2007-02-05 01:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by whyy_nottt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might just have period pain and she may just get it really bad or maybe shes thinking of going on the pill. You should talk about it with her this is not personal at all if you love her. Its totally normal with alot of girls. If you are worried maybe just tell her your worried and care about her and that your concerned there might be something wrong.
Maybe she wants to wait until she gets to know you better. Good luck i hope she is ok
2007-02-05 01:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Nat555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably trying to ensure you don't get her pregnant dopey.
The reason she has stomach aches is because you're probably driving her nuts trying to get in her pants. Are you sure you know what to do with her lady parts?
2007-02-05 01:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she may have an ovarian cyst or a bladder infection. They both can be very painful. Or perhaps, she doesn't want to have intercourse with you. If she did not, would you support her decision? Maybe you want to get more physical and she does not and this is a good way to get you to keep your distance. It is a possibility.
2007-02-05 01:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by isis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have thrush or a urinary tract infection - but most likely she has a cyst or ulcer in her uterus or phallopian tubes - a girl when I was at school had the same symptoms as your girlfriend, and she had a cyst in her ovaries.
2007-02-05 01:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think that u should not think of that when u are with her.coz it will come without expecting it.beleive me it work.try to concentrate on her a person,no physical.
hope i got u my msg.if u need anything dont hesitate to ask me.i passed through a lot of those stuff.
2007-02-06 07:48:35 · answer #7 · answered by Mr LB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't force it. When she's ready, she'll let you know. Also, make sure your intentions are honest and clear otherwise you have a world of drama ahead of you.
2007-02-05 01:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by 444 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe nothing. Maybe she is just scared of having sex and losing her virginity. I mean i was scared right before i had sex. So dont force her into anything just let it ride.
2007-02-05 01:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by Will W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if shes still a virgin and she says she has a problem either shes saying that or something is wrong, you should ask her after all she is your girlfriend...
2007-02-05 01:17:36 · answer #10 · answered by miss gen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋