My friend is dating a recently separated man and I hate it! It seems like every man she falls for is either married, separated or in the process of a divorce. Does anyone else see anything wrong with this?
2007-02-04 17:13:01 · 13 answers · asked by Fireanddesir 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Recommend this book to her, "Are you the one for me?" by Barbara De Angelis. If she's open to reading it, it will help her figure out why she keeps dating the same man over and over.
2007-02-04 17:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just has a hard time meeting the right guy. And this seems like something good for her at the time. I've been through the same situation and it usually never works out. But I guess if she doesn't go through with it then she will always regret it not knowing if it would have worked out or not. If she makes a constant habit of this then she might have a problem. Try to get her out more and meet guys. It all kind of depends if the guy was separated before he met her. She shouldn't be getting in the middle of someone's marriage while they are having problems. She needs to be careful so the wife doesn't sue her or something. She shouldn't be so desperate that she has to break up a marriage. Let her make her decisions. If she is really your friend then you will stick by her no matter what foolish decisions she makes because she will need you if it doesn't work out. I'm glad my friends stuck by me and supported me even if they didn't agree with my choices. She will hopefully learn her lesson. Maybe buy her a book or something on picking the right guy. She might need some guidance if she keeps doing this.
2007-02-04 17:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What she does is her business and I congratulate you for having the courage to stick by her. This is the lifestyle she has chosen and she knows the risks and benefits. Clearly, for her, the benefits outweigh those risks so good luck to her. Being ambivalent need not affect your friendship. I just am a little confused though - if she never discusses her lifestyle with you, as you say, how do you know for certain she is dating rich married men? It may well be an imaginary world she is living in. You would be surprised how readily people lie and tell stories for attention.
2016-03-29 05:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's morally wrong. But you must not judge your friend. She may need to boost her ego by taking other women's husbands. I know it's not very high character. Consider this as an insecurity on her part.
I have a friend just like this. She's a highly sexual creature and she often finds men out on their bachelor party at clubs and sleeps with them. I think she's a home wrecka but I never tell her. That's why we're still friends after all these years. I am aware of her need for attention by men, her insecurities if you will. I have no business in her bedroom you know?
2007-02-04 17:19:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend if they are afraid to be single for a while. It does allow to learn about what you truly want in a relationship and also what you can offer in a relationship. A person that jumps quick into a relationship often times is afraid to be alone and will continue to make the mistake. The big thing is your friend will not change until they realize what they are doing and wants to change.
2007-02-04 17:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by DJ Z dub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is something wrong with this, but she the one that in so just
be there for her, trust me she will need you before this is all over
but some people you just cant tell them anything, but he
is still married and until he has the divorce papers in his
hand then you can be sure .
2007-02-04 17:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set her up with some friends of yours, not for a relationship. But to get her pysche up about dating reasonable guys.
2007-02-04 17:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your friend's life, let her live it. Maybe there is something she likes about a man that is emotionally unavailable. Just support her. The more you show her that you disagree with it, the more lkikely she is to do it.
2007-02-04 17:16:59 · answer #8 · answered by isis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She might be looking for father or Brother image or looking for someone who is responsible and or financially stable guy.
2007-02-04 17:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Griffins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's desperate for love. Be her friend and support her. She's not going to change.
2007-02-04 17:15:47 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋