I've been told I'm attractive. Men tell my friends how attractive I am... but I never hear it directy. When i go out, I'm left alone except for the courageous oddball men (who I'm not attracted to). What can I do??
2007-02-04 17:10:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh... and being alone all the time makes me feel very unattractive. so there's no snobbiness here. ;-)
2007-02-04 17:12:10 · update #1
Maybe its how your projecting yourself. Do your smile or give off a pleasant type of personality. I'm a really nice person for the most part and when I'm in public people say that I look like I'm ready for a fight, I'm a man by the way. Plus it depends where you go, your age, and the age of the men your trying to meet. Older more established men might not have a problem approaching you.
2007-02-04 17:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by redjake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cause they feel that they are out of their league.
In HS I really liked a girl who was above me I was never about that I thought that we had a great friendship. Well I asked her out & she rejected me & cut off the friendship. (I was never into what others about me thought) Mutual friends told me that she thought that she could do better & she did. Years later after college & braces, late puberty, growing 8 inches, & stuff. I'm at a restaurant (lunch)& she is our waitress. She doesn't know me... I get her # & trashed it. Personal Vendetta.
What I am trying to say is that you should turn the tables and ask guys that you find attractive out. It sounds to me that you are in a buyers market.
2007-02-05 01:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some confidence. that probably attracts men the most. and having this preframed concept like that, isn't giving you much confidence. walk around like you own the place, and who cares if any men come up to you, just have fun with your girls. what kind of guy wouldn't want a confident, fun girl?
2007-02-05 01:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by whyy_nottt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is change. What you wear and how you stand and how you respond when a man looks at you determains how the men that interest you will react.
So look at the men who interest you and act and dress what interests them.
Might not stop odd balls, but cut down on them.
2007-02-05 01:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by bright_neon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are not really attractive and your friends just say that to make you feel better?
and put up a picture, then we can really answer the question.
2007-02-05 01:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mayb they are afraid to approach u because u look out of there league. try and make urself more approachable... mayb even approach sum yourself. and wack on a smile. smiles always help =] good luck!
2007-02-05 01:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha wow I have the same problem, my brother always tells me how other guys think i am so attractive, but none of them ever approach me, its always the nerdy/unnatractive men who do.
I am in the same "pickle" as you lol.
2007-02-05 01:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldn't be in a hurry ,,I think when it comes to the right person ,he will approach you ..
don't let being lonely make you lose your self confidence ..we don't need someone to complete us always!
2007-02-05 01:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋