there's this girl that i used to like.. ive never talked to her before..i dont know a thing about her.. but i want to just get to know her.. i found out her screen name and these past few days i kept saying to myself that i would IM her up and try to talk to her to get to know her but i dont want her to find me annoying that i keep asking questions.. and i think i annoyed her in the past cuz i messaged her like 4 -5 times on myspace and she never answered back.. so yeah.. im a very shy person and i cant hold a conversation very well :\..
what should i do?
2007-02-04 17:07:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should send her a message and be honest. She should be flattered that someone wants to get to know her. I know I would. Just be honest and not creepy.
2007-02-04 17:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite normal how you feel. It is because you like this girl alot you are getting all nervous. But let me tell you one thing most girls like and are attracted to guys who are confident. There is nothing wrong with being shy. But you will have to over come that shyness and start talking to the girl you like. For all you know she is shy too and is probably waiting for you to start up the conversation. Try to get to know her as a friend first its always easier that way. Good Luck
2007-02-04 17:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it!!
IM'ing is diff from msg-ing.
and trust me. thru IM, holding a conv is much easier den face to face.
talk to her, get to know her, be friendly and approachable.
make sure she dun mistake ure shyness as arrogance.
den judge her vibes. if she's being friendly, good. take de next step.
if not, den decide if u still wanna talk to her or not. dets de gd thing abt online relationship. u can cut it anytime. not so good, but its useful.
once u've started chatting wif her, u can probly suggest a meetup date or sumting. by the tym, u shoud know athing or two abt her.
gd luck!! hopei've been of help.((:
2007-02-04 17:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im also am a shy person. well u need to just go for it. I need to tell u that if u dont u wont forgive yourself until u do. forget the past and chase after her. if u need any more help just email me. good luck
2007-02-04 17:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a very shy person too but I'm getting over it little by little.
Slowly but surely you will too just keep trying.
2007-02-04 17:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by .......... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing you can do is go talk to her, face to face, i know that this may be hard but iming is so impersonal exspecialy if she knows your screen name. just say hi everything else will just come to you and it will feel normal. but if you say hi and she ignores you then you know shes not interested,you can cut your ties and move on
2007-02-04 17:18:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u re not shy, u re dull. go read a book. u re not afraid to talk to her, u just don't know what to talk to her about
2007-02-04 17:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋