He is always going u and saying he loves u all the time. But he has broke uo with u two times for other girls.. And he a lways comes back to u.. And he always is like i never want to brake up and stuff but how do u really knows if he loves u.
And I have been through the pain 5 times and i just knoe that if he brakes uo with me again and wants to come back then i will take him back and i dont want to go through that pain again.
Should i brake uo with him but i love him with my whole heart..
And does he really loves me??
2007-02-04 15:41:02 · 18 answers · asked by Paige J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a friend who has been with his girl for 12 years, I've known him for 9 years. For at least 10 of those 12 years they've been off and on, mainly and most of the time because of him. One thing i know about him though, as his closest friend, is that he will only die for one girl and thats the one that he's known for 12 years. Yeah men are jerks and 80% of the times they f uck up and hurt the ones that love them the most "BUT" some women find ways to adapt to this kind of behavior in order to come out on top. If you want to end up old, happy, and in love with him, hold on tight to the challenges that a normal relationship brings. Fight the b itches off, keep telling and showing him how much you love him. Good luck.................
2007-02-04 15:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry that you are going through this. I know it can be one of the worst feelings in the whole world. Unfortunately, I don't believe that he actually loves you. He might think he does - when things don't work out with the other girl and he doesn't want to be alone, then he will feel the "love". He seems like he is just actually afraid to not be with someone. You will go through this undoubtedly, time after time, until you let him go. It is so hard to do, I know. The best thing would be to let him go and stay away from him 200%. I mean no phone calls, no text messages, no pictures, no conversations, no NOTHING! I would also remove any reminders of him that are in your life. You need to make a complete break when you are this hooked on someone. I've been there. I thought the world was gonna end. But I hung in there and didn't call him (and you know, that was the hardest thing!), I wouldn't let myself go see him, write him - absolutely nothing! And that was the only way I finally got over him for ever. It will be hard but you will be so glad once you do. And you will be able to look back at this relationship and think to yourself how glad you are that you don't let him do that to you anymore! Good luck, I will pray for you...
2007-02-04 23:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Understand that I am in no way speaking on his be-half only what my opinion is. I do not think that he loves you. It sounds as though he is trying to have his cake & eat it too. Seems as though when a new girl comes along & shows him intrest, he loses intrest in you for a time. Then it gets old with the other girl, & he comes back to where he knows that he is safe, because you always take him back. Don't fall for it next time. Before he even tries this stunt again, break up with him so he knows what it feels like, & find a guy that is going to treat you right. If he really loved you he wouldn't leave to begin with. Girl, don't take his stuff, be strong, & take a stand for your self.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!GOOD LUCK TO YOU!!!!
2007-02-04 23:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok,your age has alot to do with it too! If you are between
18 & 22 then accept that most guys in this age group are
confused and still not ready for anything serious,so this is
normal. Past this age group,then thats vert sad & very bad
and harmful to your well being,confidence & happiness!
Don't keep going through it,I just got out of a situation like
yours,& what you just described!!! It does hurt deeply,but
for my sake,when he left last September,I finally just let go!
If he comes back,I made a promise to myself that I am gonna
keep,I am not gonna take him back again! We are older than
18-22 so this is wrong for him to do this,& I won't let him get
away with bring me down so low anymore!!! Get confidence
back in yourself,get some new clothes & hair style and get
your self respect back up & get it up high girl,& promise your
self that you won't allow him to bust up your heart & your life
ever again,ok? If I can do it,so can you ok? We are great the
way we are and I changed my hair & clothes so he won't be
able to recognize me as easily,and I also did it for me,and so
it'll show that I have moved on to better things & better people
too!!!
2007-02-04 23:50:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if he really loved you he wouldn't put you through this pain. I know it's hard but you need to drop him and move on. I've been there many times before. It hurts SO bad. But, you will eventually find someone that does actually love you and it will all become so clear to you. And you'll finally be able to see that he never really loved you at all.
2007-02-04 23:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nope trust me i learned the hard way he dousnt lu u
he just dousnt like being singel
hes player
that want a new girl as soon as he gets sick of u
and the second he gets sick of the other girl he always knows he can count on getting back with u cuz yull say yes
trust me he dousnt luv u
if he dumps u again & then wants to get back
say no!
dont let him keep on breaking ur heart
or better off brak up with him and dont let him ever break your heart again
move on and find some one who really luvs u
and dousnt just use u to not be singel
2007-02-04 23:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by this would be me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you, then he would not keep breaking up with you to go to other women. Dump him, he is not worth the misery that he is putting you through. It sounds as though he is using you as a safety net, as someone he knows he can go back to when the new relationship he starts begins to fizzle. I know it will hurt to tell him that you don't want to see him anymore, but you need to be good for you. You need to find someone who will treat you like a princess, like someone they love as themselves. Find someone who will not stomp all over your heart. Find someone who will treat you as you are worthy of being treated. I know the search is hard, but once you find that person--the wait is worth it (believe me, I have found him).
2007-02-04 23:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by completenerd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's using you like a door mat. If you let it go on any longer, he'll just keep on doing it because you've proven to him that he can do whatever he wants, and always come back.
I'd get out and find a guy who appreciates you.
2007-02-04 23:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he does. If he has broken up with two times for another girl...
He always comes back to you, but he may just be coming back to you because he knows that you will except him
2007-02-04 23:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by K T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He says he loves you to keep you on the string...................and it would be that way also if he married you.............Run from him as fast as you can....................don't look back..........if you do you will be hurt .....................You are in pain now and have been 5 times..............so break up with him and at least you will only be in pain till you heart is mended...................which may take a year..........better then a life time
2007-02-04 23:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by ginny3282 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋