idk my friend is 280 pounds
but shes really pretty and nice
but idk
i was just wondering if any of you guys would find her attractive?
2007-02-04 15:25:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly not. I dont at all. I'm sure she is nice and there is SOME guy out there, maybe he is big also, that she could find, but myslef, and most men, do not find obesce women attractive. and 280 is much more than "heavy set". I mean NFL linemen are like 280
2007-02-04 15:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all,NOBODY can help nor change what they do and do not find attractive. That being said,I want the traits that you described above AND someone that I find physically attractive. Nothing wrong with that. We ALL( men and women ) go for what we want. Honestly,I tried to give a heavy woman a chance once based solely on personality. When it came time to get intimate,I could not get aroused. No man can force arousal,no matter what you might think about that. There are guys out there who would most likely give your friend a chance,but what reason is SHE rejecting THEM? My sister is the same,kind of heavy. She is always complaining that guys wont see past her looks,but I cannot tell you how many times a nice guy has approached her and she turned them down,later saying "yuck" about those guys. I personally do not find heavy women to be attractive physically but I will be anyones friend. Go ahead and fling insults,call me shallow if you wish,but its my life and I will do what makes ME happy and go for what I want in MY life. P.S. Society NEVER taught me what I saw as beautiful. I see beauty based on the physiological makeup that I was born with. Those who want to blame society are just looking for anything to point the finger at,rather than just choosing to not criticize people for how THEY want to live THEIR life. Also,I have friends that are or have been in relationships with heavy women. Every one of them,after a few months,start showing nasty attitudes as well and accusing my friends of wanting to look at others. So given the choice between a hot girl with a poor personality,or a heavy girl with the same,which do you think most men will pick???
2016-05-24 12:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some kids that do but most people will not. Most of the band and chours kids in my school have heavy set gf who are very kind people.
2007-02-04 15:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by theoneandonly4251 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How she feels about herself is more important, but yes I find some heavy women attractive, my first wife was, and some skinny ones too. Most have something about them that is attractive.
2007-02-04 15:33:39 · answer #4 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no iam not attractive to heavy set women i have a women at work that likes me but i prentend to like her back but i dont i do not want to tell her that iam not attrctive to her because she is fat or heavyset that will be wrong to do so i prentend to like so she can still be happy but in reality i do not like heavyset women
2007-02-04 15:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by deeisone 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I would not date her. African Americans tend to like large white women though.
2007-02-04 15:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes. many guys would. Not me though. She is more than double my size.
2007-02-04 15:28:26 · answer #7 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y not..a pic wud help
2007-02-04 15:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by iamurcolour 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋