2007-02-04 15:03:34 · 11 answers · asked by Lee K 1 in Home & Garden ➔ Decorating & Remodeling
Yes. But have something for them to slip on that is confortable and washable - some kind of no-slip sox or slippers. You will also want to have some kind of bins or something to keep shoes neatly
2007-02-04 15:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a touchy subject because some of your guests might feel offended.
I, myself always remove my own shoes when I enter my own house because I have light gray colored carpeting, and I don't want to drag in dirt I have to clean up.
When I go to my friend's homes, I will sometimes offer to remove my shoes if they have very light carpeting, and I know I may have mud on my shoes. I do this out of respect for them.
Now you mentioned that you have dark hardwood floors. Unless you are worried about scuff marks or scratches, I don't understand why you would request a guest to remove their shoes. I know myself, I wouldn't want to walk around in my socks on hardwood floors, because my socks would act as a dust mop and retain all the dirt and dust, and then I wouldn't want to put my shoes back on after that!
I think that may be pushing the envelope a bit!
2007-02-04 23:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is proper to ask guests to remove their shoes when entering your home if you provide some type of footwear for them. Have a rack of slippers of different sizes available, and they will look forward to complying. Some folks are reluctant to have their stocking feet exposed. Make it fun by providing slippers that are colorful, wild, unique, over-sized, etc. It can be quite the conversation starter. At our house, choosing slippers when entering has become a game. Everyone's name goes into a hat, and names are pulled to see who gets to choose first, second, and so on. I have animal slippers, wild slippers, fuzzy slippers, one-of-a-kind slippers. You can tell so much about the personality of your guests based upon their choice in slippers. Some are reserved and will choose a plain slipper. Some are a little on the extrovert side, and will choose a style that will get them a little more attention. Some are just wild, and will choose the extra large neon yellow banana slippers. They will end up being the life of the party. My grandson loves the ones with the built-in whoopie cushions in the heels. (He is 10) Hope you have fun with this one as much as we do!
2007-02-05 14:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by jewel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going shoeless in a person's house is a matter of respecting someone's wishes. I have had friends that required that shoes be left on the front porch, and I have had friends that thought it was rude to take off my shoes in their home. A respectful guest will accede to your wishes regarding their shoes in your home. If your feel it is necessary to have them remove their shoes it would be a good idea for you to provide a place for them to put them. Too, the way you ask will be the determining factor about the propriety of your actions. If you say to your guests, "TAKE OFF YOUR FILTHY SHOES YOU MAGGOTS!", or something like that it would not be proper. But, if you say something like, "I would appreciate it if you would remove your shoes while you are in my home, we like to keep from tracking dust in from our walkway.", that would be more proper. If, however, you were throwing a formal dinner it might be considered slightly tacky to ask the guests to remove their footwear. As a general rule, if your guests got dressed up to visit, shoes on; if the guests just came as they were, shoes off. But it is your house so you can decide where the line is.
2007-02-05 01:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by nathanael_beal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one wears shoes in my house. I don't think shoes are appropriate for indoors. Not only is it proper, it's your right...it's your home. Even a minimal amount of dirt and moisture from outside will ruin the floors eventually.
2007-02-04 23:15:48 · answer #5 · answered by LolaCorolla 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not have to ask your guests to remove their shoes. But if they don't have enough respect for you, by all means ask them to.
It is a good idea to have something available for them to put on such as non-slip socks or slippers. Or you could get a supply of those paper disposable slippers for them to use.
2007-02-04 23:21:17 · answer #6 · answered by birdie_001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is proper to ask your guests to remove their shoes regardless of your flooring. It is your home -- if you wish to keep it shoe-free, you can ask your guests to take off their shoes. 100% shoe free!!
2007-02-04 23:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by Shibi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not proper. They are hardwood. Don't be so paranoid. It is hardwood. Like bowling alley floors. Do you take your shoes off on their floors whether they be carpet, lino, or cement?
If you have to ask that of them, you really are poor, and asking that shows it.
2007-02-04 23:18:06 · answer #8 · answered by ButwhatdoIno? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't have to ask anyone to remove their shoes when they come into your house, they should know this themselves. If they don't then you should not feel awkward about asking them to do so. It is your house after all.
2007-02-05 00:51:22 · answer #9 · answered by patti duke 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have a problem with it. My brother has everyone take their shoes off when they come to visit him.
2007-02-04 23:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by Judy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋