me and my ex-girlfriend fell in love and were happily together for about a year and half and no matter what ill always love her with all my heart, we're and at the same school, i see her around all the time and she see's me, i see her trying to flirt with other guys and it gets to me, many girls will flirt with me when shes not around but thats as far as it goes cuz my ex is friends with really popular girls and if my ex found out then everyone would probably dislike the girl, shes at every party i go to and she says hi to all my closest friends, im trying so hard to get over this girl but i cant when i see her 24/7 flirting with other guys, sleeping and listening to music works but not enough, what do i do?
2007-02-04 15:01:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly how you're feeling.
Basically, you have two options.
To try your hardest to move on and forget it.
Or admit the fact that you miss her and really want her back.
If you decide to do the first option, make sure you're ready to do this. Try your hardest to not let it bother you by participating in extra activities such as running with your ipod in your eyes at dusk (that usually clears my head), go to the weight room after school and work out, focus on a sport, go out with your friends when you can, get into a series of shows on tv (such as csi, shark, etc.), listen to music when you fall asleep (as you've been doing), but most of all try at all costs to avoid your girl as best as you can. If and when you think you're ready approach her and ask if it's okay for yall to be friends. Don't let her talking to other guys bother you. Try your hardest to ignore it.
If you want her back, suprise her with something. Maybe one day at school you walk up to her or even go to her house one night and tell her how you've been feeling. Explain to her that you can't get her off of your mind and that you need her, and that ever since yall have been apart you realize how much you love her.
I hope my advice helps! :)
2007-02-04 15:10:35 · answer #1 · answered by gatorbabe09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really sad. In a way I kind of know where you are coming from. In 7th grade I had a best friend named John. Well eventually we became more than friends and were together for 4 years, I always thought that I would marry him. Then one day he took me out to dinner and told me that his family was moving to another state. He tried everything he could do to stay but his parents wouldn't let him. Then one day when I called him a girl answered, she then gave him the phone and he said hey I guess now you've met my new girlfriend. I never thought I would get over him, but eventually I did and I found an even greater guy. TO get to the point you need to just try and move on and look for other people. It can be hard but eventually you will find someone better.
2007-02-04 15:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to make a choice...either be miserable...or get out
with other girls, whether she likes it or not. You obviously have
deep affection for this girl, and that affection will return as true
love down the road....if that's really what it is. If not, you're better
off without her....no matter how much you love her.
Right now, she's the major factor in your life but only because you are allowing it. Intentionally remove her from your focus!!
2007-02-04 15:11:22 · answer #3 · answered by Northwest Womps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and tell her how she feels about the both of yall going all the way and making love and see how she feels about it and if she says yes than go for it!
2016-05-24 10:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never forget that beotch who broke your heart...but the best way to get over her is to DATE, SOMEONE, ELSE! (and still be nice to the ex!!!! That's the best!)
2007-02-04 15:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a second girlfriend. If that don't don't work get a 3rd. Get the picture.
2007-02-04 15:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you get them into bed and then get on top.
2007-02-04 15:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by hoodwink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what I do. Drink the pain away!
2007-02-04 15:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by Dawgey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋