I am always at the gym and there are always cute girls there but I never can think of anything to say to them. Can anyone help me? thanks.
2007-02-04 14:57:38 · 17 answers · asked by Ryan F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask them if they can show you some new equipment that they have been using. a different example you could use is..." how do you like the ______ new equipment?" or "what school do you go to?"
2007-02-04 15:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by Christina H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ryan, girls don't generally go to the gym to be picked up on, plus most women, no matter how hot they are to you, don't think of themselves that way. Especially when they are all hot and sweaty in gym clothes from working out (omg, what are they thinking that's hot) seriously though, they don't. So if you are ever going to approach a girl at the gym, you better have something really good to say. The best way to establish if a girl at a gym is approachable is if she is looking at you. You have to do this tactfully, establish eye contact but not for longer than 3-5 seconds. Any longer than that and you are going to creep her out. Then smile at her. Give it one more shot later on in the work out and if she gives you a smile back, then you have a shot. Otherwise you are just going to create an uncomfortable situation for you and her.
Finally, if you are going to use any lines, have it be witty and original and it should have something to do with whatever the moment is so it seems spontaneous. If you can't handle that, I will give you one of mine that works in cases like this. I have used this for girls while they are at work (another place guys hit on them constantly - which makes you just another guy). Here it is- I tell them, "I make a rule to never hit on a girl while she's at work, so where do you go when you're not working, cause if I saw you there, I would definitely hit on you." You can just switch work for working out or at the gym.
2007-02-04 23:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by John P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Picking up chicks at the gym is lame and cheesy. Try getting out and meeting someone at the grociery store....start in the mellon aisle.
2007-02-04 23:00:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's hard b/c when people are working out they don't wanna be hit on. when she is done with her work out ask her if she wants to go get a cup of coffe or something? but the cheezy pickuplines are probably not gonna work here
2007-02-04 23:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be polite whatever you do because women don't like being treated like crap or feeling like you are degrating them. Just be honest and say that you noticed her and for some reason she is intriging to you and that you would like to get to know her better.
2007-02-04 23:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice rack
Are those space underwear you are wearing?..Cause your a$$ is out of this world!
Is there a mirror in your pants? Cause I sure can see myself in them!
Those will work just fine!
2007-02-04 23:02:13 · answer #6 · answered by fade_this_rally 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...gee for a big strong girl you don't sweat too much...or ....gosh covered in all that sweat doesn't stop you from smelling good...I have others but you just have to be there to understand how effective those pick-up lines truly are...
2007-02-04 23:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can smile, then say hi and simple questions on how often they go; what excercises they do etc.
you will know how to follow after she says hi to you too.
2007-02-04 23:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by Pandora 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that you can smell the bacon melting out of her pours.
2007-02-04 23:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by Dawgey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask for advice on how to use or compliment her on how she was working out of the equipment.
2007-02-04 23:01:30 · answer #10 · answered by LS 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋