Things you see other kids doing, or parents not doing? etc. I'm not trying to sound like a perfect parent, I'm just curious.
2007-02-04 14:51:54 · 27 answers · asked by Baby Julie due 5/12 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Parents who let their kids get away with back talking, throwing fits, misbehaving, or just running wild (especially at someone elses house or in a store)! And I HATE to see 3 and 4 year old kids running around with a bottle or a pacifier!
2007-02-04 15:48:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
certain. What extremely bothers me although is the those which have person-friendly little ones telling me what i'm doing is "incorrect". My 8 month previous is somewhat monster. She's an noticeably chuffed toddler yet only watching her is hard. she will be in a position of't end transferring, can't end "speaking", continually has an opinion for each thing. She's 5 handfuls. Even my mom thoroughly consents with me and he or she raised 2 youthful little ones. although, my brother and that i have been extremely calm little ones. My dad can't wrap his head round this. He can under no circumstances comprehend why my daughter nevertheless wakes up 5 cases at evening, why i am going to't only positioned her in a crib to flow to sleep, why i'm getting so disillusioned on the undesirable days. i am going to flow on and on. countless folk do only not comprehend that no 2 little ones are an similar. only because they see one newborn it really is a perfect angel they anticipate all little ones to be an similar way. They ignore that little ones have their personal personalities. human beings without little ones are only ignorant. So are some those which have little ones. I only ignore about advice that would not artwork for my toddler.
2016-11-25 02:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something that really "TICKS" me off is when a mother stands back and watches her 5 yr old son steal another childs things and throws them away, and she doesnt say a damn thing to the child! I am proud of how I've raised my son, and I have seen him and a few other children get their stuff taken or destroyed by one child whose mother stands there a just watches.
It's too the point my son has removed his hood from his coat and it takes some coaxing to get him to wear his hat and mitts to school because of this other boy!
I really hate it when parents don't parent their children! Children need rules and guidelines to live by!
You can still be a friend to your children and a parent at the same time!
2007-02-04 15:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by missjewl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What really bothers me is when other parents think they know everything.I hate it when they say phases like"you'll see what I mean",or "I didn't find that worked try this","that won't work",when they go on about their child's accomplishments when your child is the same age and is not standing(example)I hate those parents that compete too.Children in my eyes are a reflection of the love you have with your wife.Cherish and have fun with them.It sould not be a control issue and to compete with.I firmly believe that everyone should have a licence to have children.That way morons can't be accepted to have children.Then more children now a days would have normal family environments...
2007-02-04 15:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by Scorpio Man 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing that bothers me most is that so many parents don't do any research. If you are going to do totally unnatural things; like cut of part of their genitals, feed them artificial milks, make them scream themselves to sleep in a cage down the hall, inject them full of toxins and heavy metals and cover their butts in silicates and bleached paper. At least have some sort of science to back up these choices and don't just follow the freakin' herd.
Seriously some parents spend more time picking out the perfect stroller than they do learning how to breastfeed properly.
2007-02-04 16:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by Terrible Threes 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I get really annoyed when I am out late and I see parents with young children. An example is I was at a party at friends house and someone came with their 3 year old daughter, it was 11pm! Why wasn't she in bed? I see or hear about this often. Children need sleep, lots of sleep, to develop and learn. My kids, age 7 months and 3.5 years, go to sleep NO later than 7pm, and they generally sleep 12 to 13 hours. The younger one also naps, the older JUST stopped. I swear by having a well rested child, adn I have changed my life to allow for that. It annoys me that some parents just try and fit the child into their preexisting life, rather than modify for the fact they now have someone new to care for!
2007-02-04 15:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by SZ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Every child and parent is different. There are lots of choices I wouldn't make myself or that I think are questtionable but really I'd say there is only one thing that actually BOTHERS me and that is if the child does something to hurt another child (either calls them a name or hits/hurts/bites them) and the parent sees it and does absolutely nothing.
If your two year old throws sand in my kid's eye or bites his hand to get a toy he is using, or your four year old calls my son a $hithead, I'd better get an acknowledgement from you and an apology from you and/or your child. That's all I want.
Other than that most anything else is fine with me. If you want to give a four year old a pacifier or a bottle, let your son wear a dress or give him toy guns - fine! Breastfeed your toddler in public, pierce your baby's ears and circumcise your sons - fine! Yes, I may not agree with their choices but they don't bother me. Really, I think everyone else if free to parent as they see fit. Unless of course I saw someone molesting, neglecting their basic needs (food, shelter, clothing, health) or clearly abusing a child to the point of marks, humiliation or real pain - that would get me involved - quickly.
2007-02-04 15:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by BabyRN 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I get angry with parents NOT disciplining their kids. I'm so sick of the idea of 'time out' as I work in a day care. Granted, I would NEVER discipline these kids as I would if I had my own, but when I do have children I WILL discipline them as I was. Not abuse them, but yes, spank them when they deserve it. There's a fine line between the two and I think that has been blurred by people who like to find a reason for why everyone's a bit mental. Well that's another story, but like I said I'm sick of the lack of discipline. DISCIPLINE your kids, because at the moment, they don't respect ANYONE.
2007-02-04 15:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by xxxdarksakuraxxx 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've had students whose parents gave them cigarettes, liquor, pot and worse. I can't stand to see a baby alone with a bottle propped in his mouth. I have relatives who never spend any time with their children because they're working, at school, going to Cedar Point, at a party, etc. When I have a bad day and I feel like a bad mommy, I remember that my worse day is better than some parents' best days.
2007-02-04 15:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when parents verbally abuse their children by saying, "Your fat," or "Your stupid." That can cause sever issues for that child later on in life. Other than that what ever you think is in the best interest of your child is fine with me. It isn't my place to say your a bad parent because I know I am not a perfect parent no one is.
2007-02-04 15:44:11 · answer #10 · answered by herminegranger2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋