How do i find out if my girlfriend still has feeling for her ex? She was cheated by him and now after a year, he wanted to go back to her. but she already with me.The question is, how do i find out if she still likes him or not, although she says no...
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2007-02-04 14:48:15 · 7 answers · asked by Colder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey there. For some reason, a lot of "exes" will get back in contact with a previous person they dated. They may wonder how that person is doing or maybe even try to get back with them or might be feeling low and need to remember the good times. First off, always, always, remember you CAN'T MAKE A PERSON LOVE/LIKE YOU. You should ask her what her intentions are that the ex has gotten back in contact. If you know, is it because she told you? That certainly is a good sign. If not, how did you find out? The bottom line is time will tell. If she wants to see him, you really shouldn't hold her back. Even though it might be hard, this will be the only way to know if she has unresolved feelings. She might find out (like a lot of people do) that he isn't someone she wants to be with. You've got to remember that there is a reason that they broke up. I do believe that a leopard never changes its spots. Remember to be honest and let her decide for herself so she doesn't see you as controlling or "holding her back". I wish you the best. xoxo Zena
2007-02-04 15:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she may still have feelings for him BUT you can love or care for someone without being in love with them or wanting them. the question you should be asking is are her feelings stronger for you or for him. if she stays with you then she obviously wants you if she wants him she'll go after him. if she says no like you said, then she probably doesnt want him. but keep your guard up and ask her not to talk to him..after all he is an ex for a reason.
2007-02-04 14:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by innnacurlss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is gonna talk about him for her friends ofcourse not in front of U...I had the same matter I couldn't find out if she still in love wz him or no I felt Like Jerk
2007-02-04 14:53:25 · answer #3 · answered by Dick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check with her friends on her feelings for her ex. They usually know, but that doesn't necessarily mean they tell the truth.
2007-02-04 14:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by morgan_ayn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her, if you are prepared to let her go then tell her it's OK to tell you the truth you will hurt for a while but hopefully you will be OK. if your not prepared to let her go then tell her ex to leave her alone or you'll do some damage to him.
2007-02-04 14:53:57 · answer #5 · answered by joey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey this may be dumb, but obviously if she didn't dump you and say yes to him that may be a pretty good indicator
2007-02-04 14:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by shoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not stupid enough to go back with a cheater.
that is the answer :)
2007-02-04 14:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋