I see him at lunch and dinner, sometimes breakfast. He sits alone sometimes and I want to go talk to him. He's with his friends at times. I'm shy too. So for me to go and sit with him is a very bold move on my part. But the thought crosses my mind a lot but I don't know if he would want me to sit with him. Also, last year as I was standing in line for dinner, he cuts infront of me and doesn't say anything, but also we happen to go to where the pies are and he reaches over the counter and gets the last pie instead of asking me to give it to him. Is he just scared or being rude? Or was it a way to get my attention? It worked in the wrong way. Now, I see him glanceing at me from the corner of his eye but I always think it must be the girl behind me. So what to do? I'm planning on sitting with him when he's sitting by himself. But I don't know if he's interested in me.
2007-02-04 14:38:47 · 12 answers · asked by blckmustng2002 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be that he is as shy as you are. Maybe you have to be the 'bold one', and make the first move.
The next time you see him sitting by himself, approach him and ask if he is saving the seat for anyone. Or ask if he knows any interesting guys who would share a table and some conversation with a shy girl. Come up with a semi-corny opening line that allows him to be 'the hero' to your 'damsel in distress'. It's a way to let him know that you are interested in him.
2007-02-04 15:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by sandyblondegirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach it in a cutesy manner, have u n ur friends go over there when his friends r ther, not when hes alone (u want his friends 2like u 2so that u can get close 2him) jokingly say as u walk over 'so whats w/u always stealing my food n cutting n front of me, as if it wasnt obvious i wanted a slice of that pie...' this will show him u hav a good attitude, r bold, funny and interested
2007-02-04 14:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by Taylor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
specific hes into you, i be responsive to maximum adult adult males wont shop looking if the girl isnt surprisingly or they only dont like them, so specific every physique be responsive to ideal now if a guy is observing you, he's fascinated! until eventually you're merely extremely creepy lookin... i dont be responsive to.
2016-12-13 09:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him online or email first, see what he likes,then eventually bring it up on a actual conversation . find out what sports he likes, then the next day, ask him about a game from that team, all guys love girls who kno more about eyeshadow and long brushed hair
2007-02-04 14:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by just_right_for_u33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be BOLD. Take that chance, hey whats the worst that can happen, if he doesn't like you then you haven't lost anything, if he does then there is everything to gain. BE BOLD.
2007-02-04 14:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by wife and mum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normaly the guys will make the 1st move. Just cool down he will give u the date if, he is really interest with you.
2007-02-04 14:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by sharon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably thinking that you are looking at him too. Bump into him "accidentally" somettime, and if he apologizes after you do, then he likes you. If he glares and walks away when you apologize, then he is just rude.
2007-02-04 14:44:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a shirt that says "Why are you staring at me Joe?" Works everytime!
2007-02-04 14:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by The Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slowly and from behind with a 10" dildo
2007-02-04 14:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sad thing is I'm in a similar situation. It's always so confusing.
2007-02-04 16:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋