ok i was at this dance and my boyfriend started freak dancing (kind of) with another girl for a couple songs. the entire party he had kinda been ignoring me. she didnt know we were together and so she apologized to me. my bf said he had just been dancing as friends with her and so i said that i forgave him. i mean i kinda like him but i dont really know how to handle what he did... was that the right thing to do? should i break up with him? should i give him a chance?? any comments would be helpful.
2007-02-04 14:36:48 · 20 answers · asked by .. .. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i broke up with him today...
2007-02-06 17:16:02 · update #1
Im a guy and call me whipped but i would never do that to my woman. Dancing as friends works as an excuse at a wedding. Freak dancing with another girl....I think you get the hint.
2007-02-04 14:41:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd give him a break. He was dancing. Where you into dancing like that? I don't do all dances and my husband of 20+ years dances alot. I enjoy watching him have fun, I make sure to watch and have a cool drink waiting when he's ready for a break. He usually dances with family though. Don't let him go more than 2-3 songs or he's just flat out ditching you and it's not right. I hope this helps, Good Luck! =)
2007-02-04 22:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by DB 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't tell you weather or not to dump him but, You need to let him know that when you go out in public places he should make it known that you are a couple. It sounds to me that he has doubts about being exclusive with you. You need to find out what his feelings are about your relationship. If he still wants to act like an unattached person you have to decide if you can handle that. I can tell you many years ago a boyfriend of mine did the same thing. I forgave him and he cheated on me 3 months later. You have to get your true feeling out in the open. Then find out what his feelings are.
2007-02-04 22:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by quel772o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it wasn't right that he danced with another girl. But it wasn't like he cheated on you either. I don't think thats any reason to break up with him but you do have a right to be upset with him. Talk to him about how you feel! If he still thinks it nothing, then the next time you two go to a dance, be all over another guy and see how he likes it!! :)
2007-02-04 22:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Tracey Lee ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should let him know that what he did bothered you, both ignoring you as well as freak dancing with another girl. You just need to make it clear to him what you expect in the relationship. And stand up for whatever decision you make.
2007-02-04 22:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, well it's a dance.
i don't think it was right of him to ignore you, but he's a guy and it's a dance and just because you have a boyfriend it doesn't mean you guys have to dance every dance together.
if he didn't dance with you at all, then dump him, you said you only KINDA like him anyway:)
2007-02-04 22:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by shoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg total disrespect. man if this guy liked u like he should he would be dancing with u and only u. he would wanna stay with u talk and have a good time WITH U . huh he isn't worth it 4 ya. my advice find one that cares 4 ya. don't let him give u the " it was one dance " best of luck
2007-02-04 22:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dating. Dating is like fish in the sea. I would feel very badly if my boyfriend did that to me. If you are looking for a relationship, then you should find someone else in a pond.
2007-02-04 22:40:19 · answer #8 · answered by tisdale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not cool to ignore your date and hang with other chicks in front of her like that. I would go to another party with him and then i'd go off and leave him for another guy.
2007-02-04 22:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by AMoRous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love a gal that will let him get his freak-on, I wouldn't worry about it. If you start freaking on it, he is going to think you aren't very stable. I would rather be with a woman that is confident and wants me.
2007-02-04 22:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋