And if a guy isn't *ready* for marriage, does it mean the girl isn't right for him, or is it just the *timing* thing?
2007-02-04 14:35:10 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say the approximate age where guys consider marriage can depend on a few things whether it be when he thinks he's truely in love with his partner or if he thinks his partner is ready to take the biggest step of their life, without any regrets. I think the age when guys reall think about tying the knot is 18-20 yrs old, some may wait longer because they're affriad of commitment. Just because the guy isn't ready doesn't really mean the girl isn't right for him it just means he wants to let the relationship blossom to it's full potential and then capitalize on the peak of the emotion shared. my guess would be if he's not ready it's all about the timing.
2007-02-04 14:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by As she sees me I AM A GOD! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there isn't, because different people come to that decision (men and women) at totally different times. Some people may choose never to marry. If one of you isn't ready, that doesn't mean it can never happen. You might still be "right" for each other, but the time just isn't now for getting married. There are far more important things to know about someone than whether they're ready to get married.
2007-02-04 14:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-12 14:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by rina j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm male and 17. i in my opinion may watch for a lengthy time period. I have my education earlier than me, i'd pick to flow on to college, and my recommendations is at the moment on such countless different issues (AS ranges, utilising attempt, college possibilities and career) that i do no longer have the time to judge marriage. I also may like a enormously rewarding career, so that you will be straightforward, sounds like I have a not person-friendly slog earlier than me in the previous i'm getting everywhere close to questioning about marriage. there is evidently, the criminal situation, i imagine that is 17 that you'll marry with parental consent (?) and 18 once you may marry legally. in my view, this continues to be too youthful to make such an recommended determination, noticeably given the enormous numbers of divorce situations in retaining with annum. My ideal advice is probable to attend till mid-1920s (it truly is in common words an approximation) even as with any luck one has their education less than wraps, perhaps a job and a healthy economic employer stability to make a committment that finally, no longer in common words costs time and means to maintain, yet also funds. wish this helps!
2016-11-25 02:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by meikle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy....but I think most guys have in their mind when they are going to seriously decide to get married....like "first I am going to be solid in my career, through with my education, etc....then, I'll start looking for a wife"...and he may have really clear in his mind just what kind of wife he will want.
This can change if he happens to meet that girl ahead of time....or even if he does....he may just wait until he feels he is ready.
Some guys want to get married early...like at 22, but most it is probably closer to 30...which is when they are more mature.
And girls mature much earlier, usually...could get married and settle down faster than most guys.
If you have a guy in mind and think eventually it might work out....just focus on your own education, career while he does....time may change things.
Pushing for marriage before the guy is ready will just push him into breaking off a relationship.
2007-02-12 00:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer i have for you you might not like. There is no such thing as a timing thing. If you are ready and he is not, maybe a separation from one another (splitting up) is the way to go, if you are meant to be together then you will be, but how will you know if your "perfect" guy is out there if your holding on to what might be instead of looking at what is.
2007-02-04 14:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by wife and mum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-04 14:38:50 · answer #7 · answered by tercellulite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a timing thing love and a money thing as well its not an age thing at all it doesnt neccesarily mean he doesnt love you either a lot of the time its about loving someone to that extent of spending his life with that one person so its a big deal in their eyes to marry the right woman not a booty call they want to make sure the feelings are the same about the whole commitment thing they dont want their woman to wake up and say i dont love you anymore. they want them to say i love you.
they arent going to buy a diamond and dress in a tux without bieng sure its the right TIME and know they can AFFORD it.
2007-02-04 14:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on guy, I got married at 20 and I have been married for 8 years and still going strong.
2007-02-12 12:08:20 · answer #9 · answered by Maravista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i read somewhere that a man is not mentally ready for any commitment until the age of 27. some kind of hormone chemical balance thing
2007-02-12 13:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋