how can i help myself move on since my grandparents died?

Question

I am having a difficult time with losing my grandparents and i need all the support i can get. I wish i would have been more in contact with them and i cant help but feel like a total loser for not calling them more often or writing them letters more often Any advice would be very much appriciated. Crying......

Answer 1

Do what you're doing now, reach out, don't bottle this up. And they do not want you to feel guilty, it will prevent you from fufilling your destiny as an extension of who they are. Have any old pictures and momentos? Build a scrapbook, start writing down their history, it will be a great gift for your children to have and to start healing your heart. God Bless you honey, you're going to be all right.

Answer 2

It is hard no matter what, when you lose a relative (or friend, or anyone.) First, realize that they are in a better place. Your grandparents are looking down at you from heaven, and will always be there for you. To help your sadness pass, just remember the happy thoughts you have had when they were around. Talk to a friend or parent about it, and if that doesnt help- seek counceling- that is what hey are there for. But most of all, they are in heaven now, and will still always be with you. Pray about it, everything will be ok

Answer 3

don't feel bad last month i lost one of my aunts i loved her so much and i still am grieving her death well while my aunt was alive i told my grandma to let her know i ws going to write her a letter but i played around and i didn't , when i got the news sh died i felt so bad i felt ashamed to feel a lil better i wrote the letter and i put it in her coffin she is no longer here but she'll be remembered in my heart , in other words what ya shouldn't do is say your a loser cause your not all of us wish we could've done something but we couldn't , i know it's hard but have faith believe in yourself