2007-02-04 14:19:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I think she said STAY like that. I was very young.
2007-02-04 14:19:53 · update #1
If I understand your question correctly, your mom said that when you were born she liked you as a friend, and this is upsetting to you, because you expected her to say that she loved you, not that she liked you.
There is this myth that when a baby is born, the parents -- especially the mother -- will automatically and instantly fall in love with the baby. The truth is that parents usually do NOT bond with their babies immediately. Parents may feel that they like the baby, or think that the baby is adorable. However, it takes time to develop a sense of LOVE for the baby.
I have 3 kids, and both my husband and I agree on this. I have discussed this with close friends, and they agree as well: it takes some time to bond with your baby and to feel real love for him/her.
Some mothers I have talked with felt very guilty about this, because there is this stereotype of parents falling immdiately in love with their babies. The fact is, the baby is a stanger until you spend more time together, cuddling, feeding, listening to your little one breathing...
Some parents even feel temporary resentment towards the baby for the suffering of childbirth. It's perfectly natural, and it passes.
In short, I think your mother was being very honest with you about how she felt when you were born. I'm sure she grew to love you as she got to know you :-)
2007-02-04 17:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by Victoria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I understand your question, but it sounds interesting because I too liked my son when he was born. I liked him very much and thought he was a really cool little guy. I think that was helpful in his growing up to be a really cool big guy.
2007-02-04 22:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by shelton4258 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she has big **** tight body and a non wrinkeled face fock the tool for what its worth, not much free in uk.
2007-02-04 22:22:40 · answer #3 · answered by hades hell 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, at least she said she liked you at all. That's something.
2007-02-04 22:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by b97st 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Can you ever really be "Just Good Friends" with your mum after all youve seen her minge from the inside.
2007-02-04 22:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
u should respect a lady
2007-02-04 22:28:00 · answer #6 · answered by Difi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand what you are asking can u add details to explain?
2007-02-04 22:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by Carrie H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
could you rephrase your qusetion i dont understand what you are asking
2007-02-04 22:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her what she meant buy that.
2007-02-04 22:22:52 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋