2007-02-04 14:07:28 · 14 answers · asked by big d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls want you to be honest with them. No one likes being lied to. It depends on how you say it. If you say it with kindness, sensitivity and respect and let her know by the way you say it, that you are telling her out of her best interest and your sincere concern for her well-being, she won't get mad at you. If you are insensitive or blunt, she will.
2007-02-04 14:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by bahhumbug07 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uhm well see Okay It honestly depends.
on number 1: if u cheated.. then lied about it.. but eventually told the truth after ( I would get angry over that cuz first of all... well ya u cheated its bad but number 2 most importantly u lied about it when I only really wanted the truth to know if what I thought was correct.
number 2: uhm.. it depends if u lead the girl on.. and then like the day before was like" Oh I love you" and then the next day dumped them and told them that u didnt like them anymore and feelings change( it would make me mad because number 1.. u lead me on the entire time.. and when ur feelings changed u should have just told me straight when it happened instead of waiting so long and leading me on letting me get more attached.
Number 3: I hate I want to go on a BREAK term... because number one means they just dont like u the same... and wanna fool around with other people and all that ****... so if u dont tell me straight up.. the reason why.. I will definantly get angry
next thing: I dont like when guys are like... oh I THINK we would be better off at friends when they really like someone else ... its better to just be straight up and say U like someone else because if I find out other wise I get angry...
so basically Im a really straight up person... I hate being lied to... doesnt matter what it is... lieing is worse then cheating.. cheatin is one thing but when u lie about it.. Oh boy... u wont be dating me after that I guarentee it...
2007-02-04 14:19:33 · answer #2 · answered by beth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I am in a relationship I will tell the truth to my partner and never do anything that may hurt him, and thus say "tell me the truth" because I always do and I expect him to do the same - but this at the same time means "don't do anything that may hurt me"
2007-02-04 14:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by applepie24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone wants everybody to be honest with them, but that doesn't mean they aren't going to get mad and/or resentful. They do depending on what it is like you're using them, you back stabbed them, you lied to them. Something small like does this look good, was my dancing bad, hows my essay that's when it's immaturity, they asked for the truth and they're going to get it.
2007-02-04 14:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they want the truth to be something good. If you tell them the truth in a harsh way then they will feel hurt.
2007-02-04 14:10:40 · answer #5 · answered by yahoooooooooo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because when they ask for the truth, they don't mean it! Never tell a women the truth! They are all crazy, they say one thing and mean another!
2007-02-04 14:11:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok, so form one! I hate it whilst adult adult males ask if we are mad using fact of our era. specific, we are able to be snippy, yet not all-out ***** monster! in my opinion, i think of she's overreacting via asserting that she in no way needs to text cloth or seek advice from you lower back, it extremely is merely immature. on the comparable time although, you wouldn't have lied to her, era. It replace into stable you instructed the reality, yet now and lower back, the reality hurts the main. She's for sure mad using complicated lie you instructed. I comprehend the place you have been coming from, yet sooner or later, it extremely is many times superb to tell the reality at present as hostile to making a complicated cyber web of lies. i think of you mustn't text cloth her right here few days, enable her to relax down. in case you text cloth her now or the following day she'll maximum possibly nevertheless be warm-headed. In some days time, although, she would be greater point-headed. once you seek advice from her you are going to be calm and gentle to her thoughts. do not interrupt, females get mad at that. it extremely is significant so which you would be cool and picked up, whether she starts bashing or yelling at you. not something efficient ever comes from 2 human beings yelling at one yet another. additionally, do not text cloth her. call her in some days, so she will hear your sincerity and tone. Texting could nicely be not difficulty-free using fact which you could not fairly show your tone of voice. i think of you may try this in order that which you do not experience in charge and so as which you the two get closure. i don't think of you may proceed pursuing her using fact she for sure does not handle you exact, and you deserve greater powerful. i'm hoping this enables! stable success!
2016-12-13 08:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most girls, especially young girls are wanting you to tell them something they imagine the love of their life would tell them. Young girls, and even women, don't want the truth, they want a fantasy.
2007-02-04 14:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by shelton4258 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because truth can hurt. learn to filter your thoughts and say something honest, yet tactful.
the bottom line is that you are damned if you do and damned if you dont. so try to be a little smart with the truth.
2007-02-04 14:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they want the "truth" to be their truth and not yours.
I truly don't know how you guys put up with the female head games, I wouldn't.
Most people need to learn the saying, "never ask a question you don't know the answer to, or don't want to know the answer to".
2007-02-04 14:12:48 · answer #10 · answered by Gem 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋