He asked me out a couple weeks ago, and we really like eachother... my friends found out we are going out, and he doesn't want anyone to know. His friends haven't even figured it out yet, but they have a clue. So, why doesn't he want anyone to know? He doesnt have another gf, cuz (people think he's SO not hot) and I'm going out with him cuz of his personality. And he hasn't been talking 2 me lately. We are kinda shy, but I think he's mad cuz some people found out already. He says,"I'm not mad, I think you're really nice and I really like you." I can tell he cares enough to not be a jerk. And my friends say that he talks about me a lot. So why isnt he talking 2 me? We talk sometimes, but idk.
2007-02-04 13:41:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's kind of strange. I can't think of much positive to say about this one.
2007-02-04 13:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by mcpouches 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well... he may like you a lot, but he probably doesn't feel like he can open up and talk to you yet. You should make things easier for him, but trying to have conversations in a non-confrontational way. Like in the car (when you aren't facing each other face to face) or over dinner. Sometimes it takes a while for people to open up.
As for him wanting you to be a secret, I'm thinking its not a good sign. When a guy really likes a girl he wants everyone to know that you are his and are taken. Women are the same way.
2007-02-04 21:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by sweetti825 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just shy, leave him notes or e-mail him, just give it time, he'll open up, let him know you don't care what people think of you and that you think he is so cute and that you like him, guys have feelings too, he might be scared that you will think he's ugly and dump him
2007-02-04 21:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by Taylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't talk to you now he never will unless you guys break up and he gets more balls to talk to you...if a guy doesn't want to tell people it must mean he is embarised or ashamed and that is not a good boyfriend
2007-02-04 21:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Cayden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, he doesn't want anyone ot know????? how rude.... is he ashamed of you or what? maybe you should try talking to him though, let him know your trust worthy and make him comofortable around you so that he will open up and talk, but maybe you should try....
2007-02-04 21:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by yayme_denae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is wanting to hide you then he is hiding something from you....drop him like a hot tater!!
2007-02-04 21:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by dekota1997 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-04 21:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by Cynthia M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young and probably not ready for a relationship ....give him time... he will come around eventually....he just hasn't reached maturity yet
2007-02-04 21:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by fcukn princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd dump him, srry hes like that.....=(
2007-02-04 21:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋