2007-02-04 13:35:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
You do it in a open and honest manner, you make sure he knows how to protect himself if he has sex. NO GLOVE NO LOVE.
Make an open door policy for him. So he can ask you any question, dont laugh, if you don't know the answer look it up for him. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-04 13:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 08:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by nocera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything that everyone else already mentioned is pretty good, but I just wanted to add, make sure your son knows that this isn't a one time talk. Make sure he knows that he can come to you at any time with any questions or just to talk. I know at this age he barely talks to you, but sometimes I'm sure he gets excited about things and talks about them. Even if it sounds stupid to you, like it is about a video game, make sure to sound excited about it. This opens up the lines for communication and makes him feel as though he can ALWAYS talk to you about ANYTHING. Just start strengthening your relationship with him and no matter how hard it is, do not over-react when he tells you anything. Even if it is a big big deal, just try to be really really calm, listen to what he has to say, try to see his point, and THEN tell him what you think. Also, try to relate it to an experience you had when you were his age. He will be more likely to take your advice this way. If this is not at all possible, try to get a cool cousin/aunt/uncle of his to talk to him.
Good luck and remember, like all phases in his life, this too shall pass and you guys will be fine!
2007-02-04 14:17:56 · answer #3 · answered by Aayshalak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before age 16 yrs.-group dating-or get-togethers. It would be good for you to meet the girl(s), and the parents of the girl(s). If you haven't already. Let your son know there is a curfew-10 or 11 pm on Fri night/9-10 pm Sat. nights. Whether you are mom or dad, I am sure he has excellent manners. He needs to be a gentleman at all times. Don't feel pressured by anyone to kiss a girl-till he is ready. And not on the first date-unless it's a kiss on the cheek. Do fun things-bowling, skating, movies, swimming, fun stuff. A lunch or dinner date-is a bit different. To start-would be best if with at least one other couple. Feel free to date different girls, mind his p's and q's, When wanting to ask a girl to be a "steady", then he still has to watch his p's and q's..Going out with a bunch of friends to have fun is still okay-plus some double and single dating. Still a curfew. The girl has to be home when her parents say so-within the limit you have set for him. It would be best for him to please have the girl home and in her house 5 min. before her curfew (limit time) is up. Otherwise, just relax, enjoy, and have fun! Take care.
2007-02-04 13:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the kids are so advanced today. so u better treat him as an adult human being........ make him feel that even if he is permitted to go out all the consequent responsibilities will be on him too. dont feel shy to tell him wots happening now a days......but never make urself look like u r pulling him back for those reasons.
one thing i wld also like to tell ur son that gals gonna brake his heart and if i am not mistaken he is gonna brake some hearts too. this is how this world works. u cant help it. just dont let it affect ur career. we live for future. and if u r unsuccessful in future no gals gonna give u a glance.
2007-02-04 14:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by jenenia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have been doing that since he was three. Be open, honest and casual about it. Don't insist on anything or he'll do the opposite. Talk to him about his goals in life and how an accidental pregnancy can hinder everything he wants in life. Hopefully he likes his mother and has learned how to be repectful of women through his relationship with her. In fact, why isn't she giving him this talk? Or are you MoM? Mothers should always be the teacher of relationships for their sons. Men know nothing about us and therefore have no valid advise they can pass on to their sons. Sorry, just my experience.
2007-02-04 14:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by shelton4258 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First never ever give a child the long speech....we do not listen at all....we just pretend we do so you could get off of our case, then tell him that it's alright to date as long as you don't try to rush yourself, let him know that mistakes can happen and that he can not intend on something bad happening but things happen to teach you a lesson.....then the best way to get a child scared is do exactly what my sis and bros did to me show him the tapes on STD's that scred the crap outta of me and i am a virgin today and im 17 then show him the birth tape o my goodness it'll probly scare him now since he's 15 i was 14 when they showed me.....
2007-02-04 13:42:47 · answer #7 · answered by Chi-Town Lady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check your local book store/take him with you & let him know what you'll be shopping for...also let him pick out his own books.. this will also tell you what he's interested in & has questions about. you will find books on lots of these topics... some more suitable than others age appropriate of course... Growing up with only my dad, we were very close but the "talk" never really happened like you think it would.. the books he baught me were mostly by Dr. Ruth but it will at least make it a bit more comfortable for you... and at least you'll know they are the facts...
2007-02-04 19:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by growupandgetoveritnow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone that pays child support. Have them show your son his paycheck stub that includes the deductions for CS and health insurance. Explain to him that for at least 18 years that's what the paycheck will look like.
2007-02-04 13:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the most part he'll have to learn on his own. But as a parent you do have the responsibility of shaping his morals and helping him learn from his mistakes.
2007-02-04 14:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ciavana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋