A few months ago I met my cousin for the first time, and from the second I saw him I felt an instant attraction to him. Even though I don't seem him very often, I am CONSTANTLY thinking and daydreaming about him... this tortures me, because I don't think he feels the same way, and even if he DID feel the same way, it would never work out because of our age difference (he is younger) and the fact that we are related. What can I do to get over him? I don't even know why I like him so much... he's too young for me, and he's not even my type physically. Please help... this is making me miserable :(
2007-02-04 13:27:10 · 21 answers · asked by Melanie J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Awesome. Get with him. I'm a special education teacher and I could use the extra work.
2007-02-04 13:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by bosstone75 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just have a crush on him, and it will pass. Daydreaming about someone you are infatuated with is normal, especially when you don't have a boyfriend. You're probably feeling a little lonely too. Like I said, it will pass. When you find yourself thinking about him, force yourself to think about another guy you think is attractive, like a celebrity. You'll be okay, so don't be so hard on yourself.
2007-02-04 21:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there anyone you find attractive and can think about instead of your cousin? i can understand finding your cousin attractive, but constantly thinking and daydreaming about him seems a bit odd considering he is family......watch some porn or something and think about it ..... you really dont want to daydream about him in that way now do you? if you still do, get some professional help
2007-02-04 21:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell urself 'he's a child' constantly, and it will go away. plus, ur probly suffering form a case of something different : u thin he is an ah-dorable child. by the way, i understand the age differance, but how old are you and how old is he specifically? i mean, is it a 12 year old (you) likes a 7-year old (him)? or is it like a 20 year old (you) likes a 16-year-old (him)?
2007-02-04 21:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by sweety_pie!! <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not good! you need therapy girlie! he's your COUSIN...he shouldnt even be seen by you in anything other than a FAMILY member way.....and whatever you do...don't tell HIM how you feel....that would be extremely uncomfortable! for him anyway if not for both of you. Hook up with someone else to take your mind off of him.
2007-02-04 21:31:59 · answer #5 · answered by lisaj284 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg. sux 4 u. well go to the mall, shop until u reach spending limit, go home and call an ex bf. talk to him, patch things up. if u dont have a good ex then go searching for a new guy. NO ONE RELATED TO YOU THATS SICK. k bye.
2007-02-04 21:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by summer :] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i met my cousins for the first time a little while ago, and the same thing happens. u get over it, trust me. just dont think about him. if thst doesnt work, think of sum other guy, nething. u just have to get it into ur head, IT WONT WORK!!!!!!
2007-02-04 21:31:19 · answer #7 · answered by book worm 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok chica....there is definatly somthing wrong with you. You can not possibly have a crush on your cousin, that is a no no! You need to get that out of your head ASAP!!!! No blood should "fall in love"!! that is gross! good luck!!
2007-02-04 21:32:43 · answer #8 · answered by Shorty06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jump out of the family tree and find someone
2007-02-04 21:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to Arkansas. Or just decide to be a good friend and go find somebody to take your mind of it all.
2007-02-04 21:34:11 · answer #10 · answered by cold_fearrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋