what should i do if i only like guys for the chase...like ill like someone but once i know they like me i back off? i cant help that i do it do i have commitment issues or what? please help
2007-02-04 13:26:30 · 7 answers · asked by ugly truth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over yourself
2007-02-04 13:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow leading guys on is terrible probably the worst thing to do to a guy. i think that if u know ur doing this then eventually when u really really really like someone they arent going to give u thhe time of day which sucks. Maybe u have a commitment issue but maybe u get bored. Try and widen ur taste in guys perhaps the ones u are going after bore u, try and find someone that has nothing in common with u so u learn something neww
2007-02-04 13:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by k thanks bye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have commitment issues. You should just try getting to know yourself more that way you can be sure of what it is that you really want.
2007-02-04 13:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by Bookworm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem,I can't commit either, I can't stay with the same person or be with only one person for too long.I hate being tied down but I also don't like hurting people either.I have broken too many hearts and made too many people feel worthless and unwanted.One minute I want them the next i'm over and done with them before they even know its over.
2007-02-04 13:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by 17-4serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a commitment phobe. Many men and women are. When you get tired of the chasing or when you meet the right one (whichever comes first), you'll settle down.
2007-02-04 13:30:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing that just means that you are not just ready enough for anyone. Eventually if you were to find someone that you really carried about you would not back up.
2007-02-04 13:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly Belly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like to draw attention to yourself.. you want to prove something to yourself.. and when you are contended you don't care any more... but always remember what goes around.. comes around.
2007-02-04 13:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by masku darling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋