Ok I been with my bf for about 12 month I love him so much and he always said that he love me and went to send his life with, he once ask me to leave with him, but I want ready and I told him no. anyway he doesn’t have a lot of money and, I make more money then he does, I buy food and cook for him. However we been together for 12 month he bought me gifts twice maybe?? And he never give me anything for my bday we had a fight before my b-day and we make out after 3 days of my b-day that was in July and he said that he had something special for me but I never seen it, he never gave it to me. and a couple month ago his phone broke and he needed a phone and he want the news phone but he couldn’t afford so I gave him money to by him self a phone I gave him $300 and he said that he felt bad buying him self a phone so he went out and bought me a ring. I mean I was mad and happy at the same time because he thinks really he bought that ring for me BUT technically I bought it my self and were ever we go he show please that he got me the ring , but I don’t want to say anything. My point is his b-day is in 2weeks and I don’t want to give him anything, but I feel bad also he is turning 21 and I don’t know what to do? He doesn’t have a bed he just moved to a new apartment u think I should get him a bed for his b-day for like $80. i need advice
2007-02-04 13:23:46 · 5 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like your boyfriend needs to grow up and stop grudging off of you...n if u do get him netihng for his bday then go for the bed....he will probably be asking you to buy him one soon anyway....
2007-02-04 13:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of him. He's a mooch and a loser. Who does that crap? He'll never appreciate anything and he'll be fine with you taking care of him forever. Never buys you gifts? That's lame. Even when you're poor, you find a way to get something meaningful, albeit cheap.
Get rid of him. After you do, all of your friends and family will be like, "What took so long to get rid of that loser?"
2007-02-04 13:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are yew asking for advice to stay or to leave or for advice for a bday gift?
oh well, i think that yew are kinda spoiling him if that possible with a bf gf relationship, that he is kinda mooching off yew, well yeah get him a bed but i dont know what to tell yew, i mean...yew dont wanna leave him in the dust with no money but yew dont want him to keep mooching off of yew, hard, sorry, idk, good luck =]
2007-02-04 13:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like he loves ya but also loves yur money. Dont get him anything but just say your his presant... see how he reacts. if he wanted a material gift he will try to hide his dissapointment so look for it, and hard cuz he will try hard to hide it... if he doesnt mind not getting something and is happy getting you, then you know he loves you and not yur money! its up to you but i wouldnt get him anything cuz it sounds like yuv wasted enough money on this guy.
2007-02-04 13:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by my spill canvas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a SCRUB! C'mon sister, leave him at once. I think he just wants your money... sorry...
2007-02-04 13:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lovie Fish Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋