I was told by my ex that I was 'chunky' and that it would do me good to loose some weight. I'm 5'2 and 120. Do Guys like girls that weigh that much??? Is that really big? Should I consider a diet? I'm not looking for sympathy, I just want a true honest answer!
and if you need to see me to know
http://i60.photobucket.com/albums/h2/bobbete08/Picture300-1.jpg
im the girl with the gray tank top
2007-02-04 13:21:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Since you want a true and honest answer, I'll try to give you that. How much or how little weight a guy thinks is attractive on a girl is a very subjective thing. Some guys would think that you are perfect, some, that you're to heavy, and some guys would think that you are not heavy enough.
Also, some guys idea of the ideal attractive figure may change as they get older. Right now at 63 y/o I think you are just fine. When I was 18 y/o I might have thought that you were slightly to heavy to be perfect. How many people are perfect? Not too many.
Just because you asked, I think that if you lost about 5 lbs and did exercises to flatten your stomach that you would be even more attractive than you already are.
Also, I can't speak for others, but I think that it is generally true that how a girl or woman treats me is more important than her looks.
I hope this helps.
2007-02-04 13:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, Listen. Girls somehow think their appearance is the only thing guys are looking for. That's not true. It is hard to say with that one picture, but I don't think you have any problem with your appearance. Well, you're cute. Appearance might be one of those things that attract guys in the first place. However, as the relationship goes along, more important thing is your personality. So... What I want to say is.....you're a cute girl, don't worry about looking overweighted, I think you're in a great shape. Spend more time thinking about how to become nicer and sweeter girl, how to understand guys more and such.
2007-02-04 13:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but I just had to answer this question...OK I didn't have to answer it but my boyfriend did(and he doesn't do yahoo answers so I'm typing for him) He first said it's whats on the inside not the outside of a woman that matters. Then he said "and she's cute so why is she listening to some guy not smart enough to stick around" (isn't that cute,ha) anyway if I can comment here I would have to say that really what you look like isn't nearly as important as how you feel. If your size isn't having any bad affect on your health forget the guy that judged you and find one that won't......by the way...I'm a big girl(yeah a big girl) and my boyfriend is a skinny(cute but skinny) guy so just so you know..there are some guys out there that love women for who they are not just what they look like.
2007-02-04 13:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by Halo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you do not element out how a lot weight you received even as pregnant, yet honey, decrease your self some slack. you've merely had somewhat one. it may take a lengthy time period for the burden to come back off ... as they say, 9 months up, 9 months down. i understand all of us obsess over this, and it is no longer unusual that you will be stressing about it, yet you already know you actually might want to no longer be nerve-racking about this crap right this moment. you ought to merely be searching after your self, eating healthily, getting as a lot sleep as a threat (ha ha ha) and attempting to get extra exercising. it is going to come off. inspect "The Girlfriends' handbook to Surviving the first year of Motherhood."
2016-11-02 08:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by nocera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 5'2' and feel incredible when I weigh 120. I'm at 130 now and that is a little heavy for me to feel good and energetic. But at 120, I'm as happy as a clam. You sound perfect. He sounds like an idiot.
2007-02-04 13:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I stumbled on your question and before I saw your picture came to the conclusion that your ex is a complete zero. Then I saw your picture and I wouldn't change a thing. As many other people have said, you're perfect. Are you happy? I hope so. You definitely should be.
2007-02-04 13:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Grambo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you know what first of all your ex is obviously a physco if he thinks that 120 can be in any way described as 'chunky!!'
120 is definitely NOT chunky...and i will bet that everyone who answers this will tell you so unless it is your ex!
believe me, and if you think i am just saying that to reassure you or me or someone else, i am NOT. i will swear on my family's lives that i am being serious
2007-02-04 13:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by Maddie W 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhh, your ex was smoking crack! No wonder he's your EX! You are perfect! Don't start thinking that you need to lose any weight because you don't, and any man that would say such ugly things to you is obviously trying to put you down in order for him to feel better about himself! You look great!
2007-02-04 13:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by iamdaphneblake 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So what if you have weight on yourself. You are still pretty inside. And if a guy sees the outside of you and not inside he's not worth it. You shouldn't go on a diet. You are perfect the way you are!
2007-02-04 13:43:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG, I'm also 5ft2 and 120lb! Your ex is an idiot. You are not 'chunky', you look fine.
And we can always work out and tone up, your ex will always be a loser....thank goodness he is your ex!
Take care : )
2007-02-05 03:50:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋