I like this girl. I asked to copy her lab once, and she once said "'All u do is use me!", but the next day she gave it to me anyway.
Anyway, its been 2 months since I've seen her, and we ran into eachother and talked for 15 minutes. I told her what classes I'm talking, and she said she took one of them last semester. She hinted she has all the exams and stuff... then I said "u gotta hook me up sometime!"
Well, I call her today to ask for her notes, she is going to give me them tomorrow. However, judging by her voice on the phone, she seemed a bit irritated.
What can I do to make it seem like I am not using her (even though I am, sort of). I actually really like her, and want to ask her out!
2007-02-04 13:12:39 · 14 answers · asked by twiztedweb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her when you pick up the notes it was a good excuse to see her, and then say something like "what kind of an excuse will I use next time?" that makes it seem like this was more of a way to get to her than her notes.
2007-02-04 13:19:30 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me as if you are merely using the notes as an excuse to talk to her. I have a guy who calls me every monday to ask when work starts the next day. I thought at first he just used me for that information, but one day decided he is just using it as an excuse to call me. If you like her, do everyone a favor and just ask her out. If she is putting up with you even when she thinks you are using her, then she probably likes you too! So ask the poor girl out before we see a message from her on here asking for advice lol.
2007-02-04 13:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by HotMommaM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you kind of messed things up. by asking her out, she's going to think you're taking it even a step further to using her. Because if you guys are together then you can just ask for whatever.
Tell her you didn't mean to use her and you're sorry and you were wondering if you wanted to go out sometime.
2007-02-04 13:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by no 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. Thats most likely the only reason she's sticking around and agreeing to give you the notes :D
GOODLUCK
2007-02-04 13:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you talk to her tell her that you are only using the notes as a way to get close to her. that you have a thing for her and would like to take her to dinner sometime.
2007-02-04 13:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you meet with her to get the notes just ask her to have a drink or something. if you like her shouldnt it be worth atleast trying? ASK HER OUT she might just say yes. you will regret it if you dont
2007-02-04 13:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by hanalei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-28 10:34:44 · answer #7 · answered by gizzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should know how to copy some notes at school,try not to depend much on her...ask her out by being sincere...
2007-02-04 13:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out!!
but if you dont like her, dont hurt her feelings .. and go borrow notes off of one of your guy friends, or you could always do the work yourself..
trust me.. it hurts being used.. for whatever reason it is
2007-02-04 13:18:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, thats an interesting question! lol! 20/F wondering the same thing... holla back
2007-02-04 13:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋