Something bitter has happened in my married life,involving my fiance being unfaithful to me.I know for sure that she loved me,after the engagement,but one of her friends became jealous of her,as she had started loving me instead of him.He started asking her for being intimate to satisfy his ego and made her feel guilty for ending the relationship so fast after getting engaged.She agreed to do with him,and i was not even in touch with her as i was at a far off place.She was not at all clever and fell for his tricks like,"i have still so much love in for u" ;" u know me more than the guy u have got engaged to";" u should have two lives,one in which u were engaged and in the other u knew me too".So it has been nearly a year that i came to know,that all this happened ,after the engagement while i was away.She says that her feeling were true for me though her actions were not.We still love each other.But all that happened has made an obsession in my mind to a large extent.
2007-02-04 12:50:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Don't marry her. In America we have a saying, "Once a cheater, always a cheater." We have this saying because it's true. You will never be able to trust her again. Find a woman who truly loves you, because this one doesn't.
2007-02-04 13:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have this in your life forever. Only time and love will round off the sharp edges.
If you both love each other then your relationship can still stand.
Like others I would suggest a marrage councler. With or without professional help: You both need to deciede if you want to continue. This requires open communications.
good luck.
2007-02-04 13:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek a marriage counselor.
2007-02-04 12:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋