I explained to a potential date that I found it uncomfortable to go to his house prior to a movie. He replied that I was wierd and that I should get over myself. I am now confused.
2007-02-04 12:44:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, this guy was only angry because he didn't get his way. He showed no respect for you and what you were feeling. But to your question, generally "get over yourself" means to consider how an action or words, etc., affect the other person and not how it affects you and your life. "Get over yourself" simply means not to be selfish and self absorbed.
2007-02-04 12:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL, LOL... He's saying that you were wrong in thinking he might try something; like you think you are hot. What is a potential date? Anyway, if that was his purpose, he got mad because you "screwed" up his plans! Maybe he felt that you thought he was a serial killer or something.
Personally, I would not go to a man's house that I did not know, and I mean know very well. But, I don't tell them that I am uncomfortable. Instead, when the plans are made, I always insist on meeting them at the theater, restaurant, etc. If they ask why, I say that it is more convenient for me.
2007-02-04 21:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by candace b 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was offended when you said that you found it uncomfortable, he thought you meant you would not be safe or did not trust him, you are right but you should have chosen your words more carefully. A guy who would want to take his date to his house before going out is only looking for a good time.
2007-02-04 20:52:31 · answer #3 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a turd. Drop him. Don't try to understand him. "get over yourself" means you are too serious about yourself, but that verbage does not apply in the situation you described. So drop him. Kick him to the curb... drop him like he's hot....He probably wanted to do something wrong...or else he would NOT have insulted you for being cautious.
You are way too good for this guy. Lose the loser. You will gain from it. You are not confused... he is a jerk.
2007-02-04 20:50:14 · answer #4 · answered by LuvDylan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply saying that your fear or lack of wanting to go to his house, is unfounded and he wishes you would reconsider your decision. Howvever the decision is yours and you are entitled to it--stick to what is right for you. His get over yourself statement is not at all respectful--suggest finding a more mature man. Good luck and have fun
2007-02-04 20:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me he was saying that he just asked you to the house he had no intentions with you. Like you are stuck on yourself and he didn't want you in that way.
2007-02-04 20:48:07 · answer #6 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wanted to get into your pants. When that backfired he was forced to make up some bs to make himself look good instead of like a jerk. I think he is playing you and you should drop him like a bad habit.
2007-02-04 20:49:10 · answer #7 · answered by Aumatra 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
me 2
2007-02-04 20:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you not want to get busy before the movie? I think that that's what he thinks. They think differently than we do. It was the only comeback that he could think of.
2007-02-04 20:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by tisdale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not confused at all,
you know what he wants and you also know that he could kiss and kiss and kiss until you fall for it and kaboom he got what he wanted and you are not going to be able to sleep for weeks,blaming yourself.so no you are not confused
2007-02-04 20:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋