Do you wait for them to ask you or do you offer to return their stuff?

Question

My ex and I were meeting just as friends but he does not want to apologize for acting the wrong way at my home and making fun of what I seriously tell him so he can no longer come here; his choice.

I have some stuff he left; I asked but he ignore as of what to do with it.

I am seeing his mom in 2 weeks so; should I give it to her or wait till he asks for it?

I wanted to mail it but I rather wait I guess.

Answer 1

I would give it back. It makes everything final * if thats what you want* and it sends him the message that you are moving on. Thats prob why he wont dicuss the issue he may not want to move on.
I really hope thats not to confusing and it helps

Answer 2

is it the norm to return gifts when people break up? I personally never thought it necessary and never did so. Am sure the other party is not expecting to get them back - in fact, nobody should expect to get back what they'v given in the first place, unless pre-agreed upon. I won't bother, I'd just keep everything and what I don't like anymore, probably just give them away or dump them.

Answer 3

If it's stuff you'd rather not keep, return it to him. If it's stuff like gifts or memorabilia from your relationship, put it in a memory box or something so that someday when the pain of whatever happened isn't so fresh, you can look at it fondly. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 4

Ask his mother first if she does not mind taking in what belongs to him, and let her take care of it your over and done with him he is no longer your problem.

Answer 5

If he doesn't want it back after you offer do what you want with it, burn it throw it away whatever. When he finally asks for it back tell him you got rid of it when he didn't want it back.

Answer 6

if he doesnt want it then give it to his mom. And if that doesnt work leave it on his door step!

Answer 7

tellhere

Answer 8

IF HE WANTS IT, HE CAN ASK FOR IT, OTHERWISE, IT'S YOURS BABY