Ok so theres this boy at school that likes me. Hes cute, smart and nice but i dont have the same feelings toward him. I told him that and i feel like a mean person because he seems sad :-(. Should i date him jus to see if i mite start to like him??
2007-02-04 12:32:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do not date someone just for sympathy...it is as simple as that. i mean try to be friends with him forst and then see if maybe u develop feelings for him. but chances are he will move on soon enough and everything will be fine. but if you just go out with him for the sake of going out with him then that is just leading him on and he will think that you like him when you really don't...which is actually worse. So just take your time and become friends first...then see where it goes from there. Good luck!
2007-02-04 12:37:23 · answer #1 · answered by tropical girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 05:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should get to know him more.
you know, test the waters and see how everything goes.
if after a couple of times you hang out you start to like him, go for it.
if not, then just tell him how you feel
2007-02-04 12:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by xcelticsbabee34x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said that he is cute,smart and nice so i don't see why in the world you don't like him. but if you are not attracted to him then why waste your time. try talking to him more
2007-02-04 12:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do that, because it will hurt him in the end, just trying hanging out with him more as friends...you might start to like him
2007-02-04 12:36:23 · answer #5 · answered by ilovewigglesandgiggles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's cute, smart and nice. What's the problem with him then?
2007-02-04 12:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by plehaq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could talk to him and ask him if he's ok about that whole thing and ask him if he'd like to hang out sometime.
2007-02-04 12:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just tell him that you relly like him but you dont think yall wold be good to gether. thats what i do
2007-02-04 13:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u wait to see if u like him u might get a crush by a crush do u no wut i mean...if u dont it means u might like the guy cuz he likes u..i hve done that be4........i would go 4 it!!!!!
2007-02-04 12:37:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope..if ur not feeling it now what makes you think you'll feel it at all not the guy for you move on
2007-02-04 12:36:30 · answer #10 · answered by ClickSubscribe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋