I have been talking to a guy online for a while that i met at camp. He's pretty cool and i like him. He says he doesn't know if he likes me or not. he said he has to see me to figure it out. I love talking to him and he seems to like talking to me. He always says things online like "You're cute" or "you can come count my six pack" or "do u like to cuddle cuz i do" and stuff like that. Ummmmmmmmmmm......should I go see him now or wait a little bit?
2007-02-04 12:24:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your the woman..........you are in control. You can call the shots here.
2007-02-04 12:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mr.KnowNothing 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you don't say how old you are. If you're under 18, then forget about it. If you're over 18, then....you say you met him at camp. Does that meet you've actually met face to face? If so, then you could meet somewhere during the day for coffee or something. I'm not crazy about his suggestive talk online. That would make me very wary.
2007-02-04 20:29:29 · answer #2 · answered by Liza 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have been talking to a guy too on the net,
we haven't met, he sends messages on the net , text me,
then ask, when are you gonna come and meet me?
i said "you're the guy,
get up your but and come here then" he said ok. .
but actually . . I didn't make it it clear, so it didn't happen.
Then he would text me "would you like a cuddle? I ignored..
days past . . . he would call me honey and sweety and then
he sent me a text message with this question..
"would you like to sleep over tonight"
I got angry,, and rang him,, what do you think of me ?
I'm not that. (well becoz he's got $$$$)
but NO, I can't consider him,
If he's not certain if he likes you,, then he's into mind games,,
men are so good at this. . even if you're beautiful but not
attractive to him, then you'lll just get hurt at the end.
I have another one,, then we've met,, we had coffee then
we've seen a movie,, then we had dinner . . then
we started
a relationship . . We see each other,, then we
go to his place
he cooks me dinner,, and that's what I thought..
Becoz I met him on the matchmaker,, I always see him on
shopping,, (you know what I mean) on MSN chatting ..
then I told him that,, then he said if I kept on watching me ,,
he'll block me.. then as we're on his place we got on the net
and showed me allthose people on his contacts,
I was shocked.. . .hundreds of girls on it . .
Guess what i've done ? Created another profile
and anothe msn.. just to get him . .
then when I saw him on,, sent him a smile he
replied then we started chatting .. I've asked him if
he has meet someone,, he said yes.. just for a coffee
and never mmet her again.(Liar liar)
he said a lot of lies ,, then we set day to meet...
(he's got no idea it was me) then I got him to go to
certain place for a meeting..
he didn't see me I saw him waiting.. stupid fool . .
then after that day he wouldn't talk to me,, then sent
him a message ,, why aren't you not talking to me
anymore ,, what did I do ?
hahahahahaha ha ha ha aha aha . . I got him
and that's it . . BE WISE TO GET THEM . .
2007-02-04 21:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait because if he can't come up with yes or no about liking you he might have someone else on the side. Or maybe he is just doesn't want to be in a relationship
2007-02-04 20:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by Melli 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would wait a bit. u really have to get to know him. how do u know how he really is? and, if he doesnt know if he likes u, that obviously means he doesnt, or else he would.
2007-02-04 20:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by book worm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a nice guy go out with him
2007-02-04 20:27:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to make sure that he is into you like you are into him then you will know the time is right
2007-02-04 20:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Jay B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess if you knew him in camp its ok. it'll be like a reunion. go for it! be careful.
2007-02-04 20:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by deus82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Valentine is coming up, that always works!!
2007-02-04 20:27:21 · answer #9 · answered by Vy-Vy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go for it...guys love that!
2007-02-04 20:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by Suzy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋