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There's not a whole lot, but some around the mid-section and chest. It's one of those things that shuts down self-esteem immensely, but is something that needs to be coped with.

2007-02-04 12:24:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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well for some girls it would be a problem. i went out with a guy who was heavier than me. and it was a problem at first but then i realized when i was in his arms i would feel so protected and warm. like being held by God himself. i felt like there was nothing there to even come close to harming me. being to skinny isnt healthy and being to big isnt healthy. just eat right and try to get to a size that isnt to dangerous but will be good enough so that you will have enough energy to run when you have to and things like that. wieght shouldnt always be the problem. a guys personalitly and the way he see's life should be the reason why any girl should want to go out with him. if your talking about yourself then trust in yourself and believe in yourself. because right now all these skinny people are trying to be big boned and chubby. i would know because i am a thick black girl and right now im not happy with it but i have to deal with it for now. so yea. just believe in yourself. you'll find her. you never know. good luck.

2007-02-04 13:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by shanice 3 · 0 0

Is it his own lack of self esteem or you just hate the chunk in him? It wouldn't or shouldnt matter. But do what makes you comfortable.

2007-02-04 20:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by Asianfmle 2 · 0 0

We should love what's on the inside, not the outside. I know that's been said a million times, but it's true. I bet there's three things about you that are absolutely amazing. I'm a sucker for big brown eyes myself!!! :)

2007-02-04 20:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Mudbug 2 · 1 0

Sure - if he's a good guy. Sounds like a pretty minor appearance defect, nothing to freak out about.

2007-02-04 20:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by knitsafghans 3 · 0 0

if the guy had a great personallity and was funny, i wouldn't mind about a little loose skin.

2007-02-04 20:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by crazy little thing called love 3 · 0 0

If you really care for someone looks dont matter all that much if any

2007-02-04 20:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by jus_teazen08 2 · 0 0

i guess i would, if i really liked him, so yeah, cope with it

2007-02-04 20:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by :) 3 · 0 0

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