This nice guy at your school he is like your bro. and you two are really close also most like bestfriends Justin would do anything for you and he askes you out but you see him like a bro but is so hard to say no so you accidently say yes when you like this other boy and your planing on going out with that boy but its so hard to break up with him because you have the fear that it will end the friendship and you can't breakup everytime you want to you end up making it worse. he is so sweet and and cute he is the only guy who is not a pig and he so got my back . But you like Troy and troy is a big pig but he is so hot I mean on fire hot.It makes me depress I don't Justin to hate me I love him but as a brother.
What would you do?
2007-02-04 12:19:26 · 21 answers · asked by panta 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him that you have realized he is too ugly and dull for you
2007-02-04 12:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay if this troy guy is a jerk there is no way I would go out with him no matter how hot he is but that may be because I have anger issues but anyways if you think of Justin as a brother just tell him that and if he is really your friend he will understand and feel the same way and I know that sounds corny but that is the only way I know how to explain it.
2007-02-04 12:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously if you break up with him, you can't go after Troy because Justin would see what you were doing and feel betrayed and you would definitely lose your friendship. Explain to Justin that you can't handle being more than friends and you appreciate him more than anything but being more than friends is weird to you. Explain to him that you don't want to hurt him and you still want to be close, just in a different way.
2007-02-04 12:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you don't feel the same way as he does about u and that you still want to be friends. The advice on the other guy "troy" if he is such a pig I don't think u should go for him.
2007-02-04 12:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jazz_Fingers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 05:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I think you shouldnt start out life pretending. You should pull Justin to the side and tell him how youre feeling and that you would never want to lose him as a friend. Follow your heart. You owe it first of all to .... yourself.
2007-02-04 12:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend: Just say something like: "I'm sorry, but I want to break up. I really only think of you as a brother. I know that it sounds really cheesy and used, but I would REALLY like it if we remained friends."
Me: It's happened to me well a typical break up just say"I'd really like it if we were just friends and nothing more because your a really nice guy and theres a girl that really loves you not me your just a friend"
2007-02-04 12:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by NarutoAddict765 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave Troy alone, he will only use you and then break your heart. Stick with Justin.
2007-02-04 12:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why you don't want to be treated nicely. If he is like a brother to you, then he needs to know you are not attracted to him other than being a friend.
2007-02-04 12:23:20 · answer #9 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cute and nice can turn out to be sexy. hot and big fat pig doesnt go together...what makes him hot? start thinking differently about the cute nice guy. peace
2007-02-04 12:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why you breaking up a nice guy, because you are going to find a bad guy. you be lucky for that. it is hard to find a nice guy now. be yourself and don't make movement that will hurt someone who likes you. someday you will suffer from it about what you are going to do.
2007-02-04 12:23:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋