well, I got mad at him because word got back around to me that he was sleeping with girls in Louisiana and Texas and I called and left him a voice message while he was staying at his cousins house yelling and cussing at him and telling him not to come back to my house and that its over, I later found out that he didn't sleep with anybody, my aunt told me that and shes a natural liar, I should have never have believed her in the first place. he's the kind of guy that if you make him mad enough he will hold a grudge against you and I've been calling his moms house and his job trying to get ahold of him and he told me he didn't want to see or talk to me and I know he didn't mean it but when I asked him did he love me still he said no, he didn't mean it, we were each others first loves, what do you guys think I should do to win him back somehow? some good advice would help out a lot too, thanks.
2007-02-04 12:19:15 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and we've been together almost 4 years in may and I've done got pregnant by him but I had a miscarriage, we fight bad but we've never cheated on each other and when we fought he always came back to me. he said he was just tired of my crap basically and he won't answer the phone for me.
and we met up at a hotel to try and talk things over but my aunt found out about it (she never wanted me to be with him in the first place) and she lied to her husband and told her that I was going to put rape charges on him, I didn't say anything like that, my ex eventually found out through his mom and he left. he said I would see him sometimes and he loves me still but now he doesn't want anything to do with me because of that, will somebody please help answer this for me, no one will help me out.
2007-02-04 12:21:22 · update #1
You sure like to attract drama, if you guys really love and trust each other then nothing anybody says will matter, you should know in your own heart whether he would ever do that to you, not listen to someone elso that doesnt know what they are talking about. He probably will come back to you, just be patient, you went off half ****** so give him some space.
2007-02-04 12:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by f_jayce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why cause so much drama? Remember the old saying; "If you love something set it free...."
If it was meant to be, then he will realize you want him back and you 2 will be back together... If you do get back, then stop the drama... No one needs stress!!
Good luck...
2007-02-04 20:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by Robert C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much drama u need to just get over it and move on , it's over and if u keep pushing the issue it will just get worse , he could press stalking charges against u if u don't leave him alone
2007-02-04 20:27:16 · answer #3 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Either get in therapy and stay there till you change (you could involve him later), and/or
2. Give him a giant break and leave him alone; as he's requesting.
2007-02-04 20:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by CincinnatiDon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didnt read your question, it was too long but:
Put the ex back in sex.
That should make it all sweet.
2007-02-04 20:22:51 · answer #5 · answered by rowdy7802 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one. If I had been the guy, I wouldn't take you back.
2007-02-04 20:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by The darkside of skittles 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk, talk, talk. But most of all be honest and be yourself. Time will tell; if it was meant to be, it will!!!
2007-02-04 20:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by marcusm15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally ignore him
2007-02-04 20:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by little asian gal in cresent city 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋